I started about June, July last year, and since then I haven't been able to stop. Usually maybe three times a week, sometimes less if I try to stop, sometimes more if there are alot of "influences" around. I want to stop it so my conscience can be clear, and I can forget about it. I know it's not bad for your health, but for my own inner self I want to stop. How can I do it? How do I avoid things, like movies or pictures, that make me more prone to do it? I want to REALLY break this habit, but it's so hard. Please help!
2006-12-12 10:22:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
hi andrew.. not sure how old you are.. if you are a young man who is just starting to realize your own sexuality.. or if you are older.
but i got news for you.. it's not a bad habit. it's a normal human thing to do.. we all do it and we all love it! nothing to be ashamed or embarassed about..
keep doing it as often as you like, and enjoy fantasizing while you do it.. it's good to learn about your own body and about your sexuality..
just don't do it as often as i do. otherwise you're gonna pull some tendons in your arm!
but yah.. don't worry! you are a man and you are sexual, and there is nothing wrong with it.. enjoy it my friend!
2006-12-12 11:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its ok it's only natural for a man to maturbate just don't stress about it I do it a lot of times to sometimes 3 times in the same day
2006-12-12 12:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by rh_reuben 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though it is considered normal, if it distresses you, you might want to figure out what is going on for you that promts it.
Sometimes, people do it to relieve just plain old everyday stress. Find other ways to de-stress yourself, and you may find yourself doing it less.Are you bored or lonely? Get yourself out there, get active.
If you are a young teen, you are exploring your sexual identity, just try to balance it out with all the other areas of your life.
Please, don't be ashamed, God created us as sexual beings who have every right to enjoy sexual pleasure. Just keep balance with all the rest of who you are.
Lucy
2006-12-12 14:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong w/ that. 3 times a week is not an addiction.
everyone does it - and if the say they don't they are either lying or they get laid everyday - - if it doesn't interrupt your daily life or affect others in a demeaning way - - go for it! it feels good.
who doesn't wanna feel good??
2006-12-12 10:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by tirebiter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
.Three times a week. When I first discovered I could make my willy spit, fifty years ago.I used to do it three times a day. Mind you I'm older now and it's down to 7 a week
2006-12-13 06:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by burtbb0912 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either find a girlfriend to do it for you, or cut your hands off. I'd go with the girlfriend solution, myself. It's alot less painful.
2006-12-12 11:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by esugrad97 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are only doing what is natural, why be ashame. I don't think there is one man who hasn't or still doing what you are doing. And, it don't affect your health, if that was so, I would have been dead long time ago.
2006-12-12 10:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you calling that an addiction, i jack off like 4 times a day, talk about soreness, my penis cant tkae it
2006-12-12 10:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can and must stop it...the will to stop this habit is in your
own self. You alone can stop it...or better you get married.
2006-12-12 10:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by dodadz 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
the only way to stop is to cut off your own penis
2006-12-12 10:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by x.x 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋