Will you tell me the ways?
2006-12-12 10:19:27 · 35 answers · asked by Mikisew 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2006-12-12 10:20:17 · update #1
Time and make good use of that time.
Not dwelling on the past and the "what if's" or the "If only's", think of them and then realize "Okay, all is done that can be done."
Then tell yourself to have fun and enjoy yourself alone, with friends, and try your hardest to not let those hurting memories linger too long. If you are thinking negative, then you will feel negative, think positive, you will feel positive.
Know you are worth the love that is waiting FOR YOU out there. That love is waiting for YOU not you waiting for IT! Remember that and go have fun!
2006-12-12 10:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i depended on my friends and loved ones. Also, when i got so tired of sitting at home and cry for no reason, i decided to do a lot of self-help activities to fill my time. During that time, i went to the gym a lot, took on extra duties and extra projects at work, started my Masters and took a lot of classes, learned/started a new hobby. In other words, I kept myself VERY busy. It not only help me grow and learn about my capabilities, it helped me sleep through the night. I was so exhausted most nights, i'd end up having a full nights of rest and no dreams. Friends and loved ones also helped out a lot, we had a lot of girls night outs, saturday outings, hours spent talking on the phone about silly stuff. And one day, after a long time, i woke up feeling happy and looking forward to my day and realized that i hadn't thought about my ex for a while. Even when I did thought about him, the hurt and anger was no longer there. It was more or less an indifference emotion. A while after that, my friends set me up with my current husband. I am now happily married and just couldn't believe that I can ever be this happy. I have everything I want and a man who meets ALL my needs. What more can a girl ask for. Last point, i know this sounds clinical and cheesy... but it really works.. Give it time, but make sure you're occupying your time with something that's constructive.
2006-12-12 10:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by jj_bao 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me my faith is what mends a broken heart. Just knowing there is something greater than myself makes mending much easier. In short, it’s all in God’s hands and in my experience is He never forgets even if it feels like it sometimes.
2006-12-12 10:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by mikearion 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, mine is still a little sore, but when it initially broken, I buried myself in my studies. It didn't make it hurt any less, but it certainly took my mind off of it, and my GPA skyrocketed. I also took a break from dating and just let myself get over it at my own pace. When I was ready for my rebound guy, I had my fun with his ex-best friend. 0:)
3 years later, I'm happily married to a much better person!
2006-12-12 10:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by Souris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My heart is broke but I have some glue, help me inhale and mend it with you. Heart shaped box, Nirvana. Actually time is the only thing that can help.
2006-12-12 10:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by E_Soup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only time heals all wounds. Surround yourself with friends and do fun things. Flirt with every guy. Watch funny movies. Help others. Spoil yourself.
Good Luck.
2006-12-12 10:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by MsFancy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) I grew up. It took 2 years, but I realized that I really was better without him. It took a lot of time, and it took my friends to be there.
2) I loved who I was. I took up running, and I focused on improving my health. I really loved who I was and stopped concentrating on who I thought people wanted me to be. This is who I am, and I better love it!
3) I went to college. I went a guy, we became friends, then dated, and now 4 years later we're married.
2006-12-12 10:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MUSIC!! Sisters and Mint Chocolate Chip Ice Cream!!
2006-12-12 10:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by Kindall Brooks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Therapy sessions with Jack Daniels and a whole lot of sleeping around
2006-12-12 10:22:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, and it has been many many years. The tears and longing come less frequently over time, but the sorrow will always be there, even with the gratitude.
2006-12-12 10:24:28 · answer #10 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋