I smile and walk away. But it still hurts my feelings that they would even say anything about me
2006-12-12 10:07:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Some like to hurt others. They are mean SOB's and the only way to ruin their fun is to look at them and laugh as if you consider them so stupid their opinion doesn't matter. That usually kills their fun and they really hate it when we do that. Heh heh heh LOL........
2006-12-12 16:42:45 · answer #1 · answered by mindbender - seeker of truth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why it hurt, because you value the hurting word unintentionally. First, you must know yourselves about the plus and minus you have, and aware that you can not control other peoples mind, then by NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) or talk to your mind, you filter other people words or remarks, the good one you take, the bad one you forget it, and just enjoy your life. Do you know, while you feels hurts the one who give you rude remarks enjoy? Do not let it be!
2006-12-13 04:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by he he he 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's a friend or family member, I tell them. Directly, not accusingly, plainly: "What you said/did really hurt me and I'm pretty angry about it."
Don't smile.
If it's a stranger, depending on my mood, I might bring their attention to their rudeness, snap back with a smart (appropriate) remark, or simply ignore it.
Rudness, insincerety and meaness should never be smiled at and rarely (I'm increasing coming to believe) tolerated.
2006-12-12 18:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by Wonderland 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I explain to them why the comment hurts my feelings and try to use an example so that they understand what they have said.
2006-12-12 18:13:52 · answer #4 · answered by kayjay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be above them and don't care. Try not to be so sensitive if your referring to people on the internet. that's the way they are. there are countless of immature people on the internet and you just have to accept it. try to spend less time in places that make u feel uncomfortable.
2006-12-12 18:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tell myself that those people are insecure and they have to put other people down to make themselves feel better about themselves. Weird Huh!?!?
2006-12-12 18:14:35 · answer #6 · answered by DRNoraSarasin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i try to ignore it and i try to think about something funny, like a joke to make it go away
2006-12-12 18:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by thù tỉ tỉ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋