Sadly most of the time I don't
2006-12-12 10:06:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
oh, YES!
Becoming aware of it is the hardest thing, then do what you have to to keep your mouth shut (even walk away) until you can better assess the situation.
Getting control of that impulse to say what first comes to your mind without censoring it will get you far in life.
2006-12-12 10:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by Wonderland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. When I don't say it, I think of a trillion alternate ways I could have said it to them and then act out the confrontation in my mind as I wished it would have gone. When I do say it, I wish I hadn't. I don't think it's bad to just say what you feel, but you have to use moderation of course. You can go attacking everyone you feel like being nasty to. I don't have a very confrontational personality, so I try to avoid fights. I try to instead ignore. However, I do wish I had just went up to all of the vindictive, back-stabbing people--neighbors, "friends," teachers, parishoners, family members--that I have been angry with and just told them off. When someone hurts you, you don't have to take it. It's your right. I learned that the hard way.
2006-12-12 18:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, no. It has hurt me in the past, but I say what I think. And most times I say then I think about what I just said.
2006-12-12 18:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by smokeyprine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do. I'm quite sensitive myself. So I try to be positive all the time. It's my job.
2006-12-12 18:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by kayjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally people think before they say something, hehe otherwise they would not be speaking or Breathing (hehe)! but then, I think when their thinking is obscured, then their speech will be too, as in the things they say and do.
2006-12-12 18:08:36 · answer #5 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of the time especially on this forum.
2006-12-12 18:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-12 18:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by little princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should otherwise you get into fights
2006-12-12 18:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, words can be hurtful.
2006-12-12 18:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by SKYDOGSLIM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do! I learned my lesson!
2006-12-12 18:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by thù tỉ tỉ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋