I have been in a 3 -year relationship with a man and I have come here for advice. There are so many issues that I will just list them:
1.He will not allow me in his office at work. I went there once to see if I could find evidence of him cheating. The whole ride there, he was quite nervous. He would not let me see his computer. I wound up with a cut hand from the CD he snatched from me. He has gained 50lbs. since we got together and will not wash his hair which is waist length.
2. He will go for MONTHS without a bath! He will only bathe if we're going to a swing club.I hate sex w/him and our sex life has disappeared.
3. He rarely kisses me and when he does, he complains of a stuffy nose.
4. He likes gay clubs.
5. He never looks at me during sex and will only call me deragatory names. HELP!
2006-12-12 10:03:12 · 16 answers · asked by kali d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey you need to leave him don't worry about him having an affair it won't happen with his grooming no one would want him.
2006-12-12 10:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by what gives 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are some serious and nasty issues. If he is cheating on you themn let the other person have him. U should be happy he dont want to kiss or touch u beacuse he is dirty.
2006-12-12 10:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Randa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u have to just leave this relationship!!!its not healthy for u! Once you the he's unfaithful....he probably is by the way he's acting.Save your self from more heartache and leave him!!!!What is up with the not bathing?!?!He needs help....leave before it gets worse
2006-12-12 10:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by aliyah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you dream of him cheating on you because you want him to so you have an excuse to leave him. It doesn't seem like you love him so why are you with him? and if he only has a bath every few months leave him! that is gross!
2006-12-12 10:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man does not bathe or wash his hair and you want to have sex with him what is wrong with you.
2006-12-12 10:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has turned to the other side of the road. Why are you with him? He's obviously up to something if he won't let you in his office. I would dump him and find someone who is clean and not from the other side of the road.
2006-12-12 10:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh get real...no woman would put up with this. unless you are a homemaker who decides not to work. dreams are of the fears you are having of him cheating on you. but with him being such a doll i don't know why you would care...i would pray someone take his a*ss from me!
2006-12-12 10:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU WORRIED OF HIM CHEATING LET HIM GO YOU DESERVE BETTER HOPE YOU ARE INVENTING THIS BECOUSE IT SIMPLY MAKES US WOMEN SEEM DUMB THAT WE WOULD PUT WITH ANYTHING TO BE WITH A MAN THAT IS SIMPLY WRONG DONT DEGRADE YOURSELF
2006-12-12 10:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by EPTX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why haven't you left him??? Find someone you can trust. There are better guys out there.
2006-12-12 10:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
he's having "grooming issues" because thats his way of keeping you away, physically, from him. i think he is gay.
2006-12-12 10:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by Btieti 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋