How can I overcome extreme boredom when they are no friends in my life?

Question

I do not have a job. I do not have friends. I do not have a social life. The only place I go to is Community college a few times a week, and that is something I entirely hate doing. I find that this winter is consisted of days of extreme boredom...it feels almost as if that my life is consisted of one big wide empty gap. On the weekends I go to NYC just to do something...and I still end up being alone! I usually walk around 42nd and 8th ave in Manhattan all the way up to central park, then buy a 40 of malt liquor, get drunk, and stagger around for a while, then by 4am, I take the train and go home. This is my idea of "partying". Just how ******* pathetic is that? Can somebody help me overcome my extreme social anxiety, extreme boredom, and severe loniless? I am thinking about calling an outcall escort next week for 200 bucks just to have a GFE, which is something I've never had before.
Please help me.

Answer 1

I sounds like you might have seasonal depression which is actually pretty common. After you feel better about yourself you will attract more people and be happier.

Answer 2

I'll be your friend. Hey buddy! How are you doing today. Talk to you later!!

You need to go to places to find friends like your local church or some place where there are people just like you such as the library. I don't really know you but if you like to party, go to a club and meet some new people. No one can help you be more social...you have to do that on your own. Most people like to talk about themselves so ask people questions but don't be nosy. I know that's kinda hard but you have to try. I don't have a lot of friends either but I'm happy. I go to college and talk to the people around me and have made some friends.

If I was your friend, I would advise you not to call an escort service because it might turn into a habit you don't want. Take care!!!

Answer 3

you can always mentor a kid or go to mirc.com