2006-12-12 09:43:04 · 9 answers · asked by grand hustle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope you at least have the courtesy to not smoke around HER and to not leave your porn lying around in plain sight. If you can compromise your behaviors by not putting them in her face, then she shouldn't have such a big problem with you.
2006-12-13 20:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by grey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 15:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby your hurting her more than you know. Or, maby she has very low self of steam and she feel like she isn't good enough. As a woman it's probally something that happened in her past that made he feel that way. Usually when a person feels that strong about a paticular topic their is a good reason and you just don't know it. Is it worth loosing her over? Don't wait until it's too late and make it another "I could have story'.
Does she cry or tell you she lost someone because of smoking?
Do you think she would leave you or sacrafice her morals and values? I wouldn't and if she's a real woman like me she won't.
2006-12-13 16:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by sincere_woman25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand, so I'm going to ask some clarifying questions.
1. Do you mean she has a problem with your past?
or
2. Do you mean that she has a problem with you continuing things you did in your past? I.E. she wants you to no longer look at porn or smoke now?
I guess it doesn't matter too much, if your past bothers her, it bothers her, and it's not your place to tell her what should bother her or not bother her.
Ditto for the case where it bothers her if you continue these behaviors.
I applaud her for being honest and sharing this with you.
2006-12-12 09:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you found out that she didn't like it did you stop?
If your not doing these things now she needs to get over it!
and personally I find nothing wrong with porn or smoking.
2006-12-12 09:57:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok maybe your just making them feel uncomfortable and like your not happy with what you have as far as smoking goes its a bad habit and they are probably woried about your health as well as their ow or furture children so just try to understand where they are coming from and talk with them good luck
2006-12-12 10:19:32 · answer #6 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should quit doing all those things for her if you truly love her . I mean i know that smoking is hard to quit but I did it for my husband. You just have to know that ,that is what she wants. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-12 12:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Dr. Phils advice on porn in this link;
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/54
2006-12-12 09:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knew what she was getting into before you became enfianceed, she has no right to expect you to change.
2006-12-12 09:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋