This lady cheated on her husband and he found out. So she ended the affair and amended things with her husband and they are currently happy and all. Anyway, she recently emailed the guy she cheated on her husband with to wish him happy holidays. Do you think that it is a wise or foolish move?
2006-12-12 09:26:46 · 17 answers · asked by danielle26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Foolish move. Think about it, if it was the other way around she would not be happy at all and start concluding that he is up to his dirty tricks again. That is how the husband is going to feel and possibly this time it won't end in a happy way.
2006-12-12 09:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty damned foolish, IMHO. I'm all for giving relationships a second chance and rebuilding the trust, but I think communicating with someone that you cheated with, even for something as normally innocuous as "happy holidays", pushes the boundaries of good sense.
2006-12-12 10:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a very healthy thing to do. There should be no reason for the woman to have any communication with the guy she cheated on her husband with, unless she is just looking for a way to get the guy to divorce her.
2006-12-12 09:30:09 · answer #3 · answered by Die S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Foolish.
2006-12-12 09:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a foolish move cause he could be thinking that she might want to start something up again. She should be more carefull. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-12-12 12:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not okay she's still holding on to his email, now is it? That shows something right there.... and does this "woman" want to hurt her husband and put him through all the pain that he already has gone through AGAIN? Even if she's not cheating again, it will still bring all the pain and heartache back and cause their relationship strain again. Ahhhh what the hell was she thinking?
2006-12-12 09:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course its a foolish move!
2006-12-12 13:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by guardianangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is absolutely a stupid *** move on her part...especially if she loves her husband and has already burnt alot of energy and hurt over it. Get real.
2006-12-12 09:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by jennericcpl@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foolish that could have ruin lives why play with fire?
2006-12-12 09:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that was realy a bad idea. She needs to cut all ties with this guy if she really wants to save her marriage.
2006-12-12 09:30:29 · answer #10 · answered by blue_6670 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋