If you have been together for 15 years, can you just fall out of love with someone? Is it possible to fall back in love with that person?
2006-12-12 09:20:19 · 8 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can fall out of love when this person has let you down in a very rough way like infedelity or lies something you never expected from this person ,about falling back in love well that is hard to say it would take alot of work from both of you but true forgivness would have to have alot to do with it maybe yes if you both work hard at it
2006-12-12 09:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by EPTX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can fall out of love. People change, relationships change. It's not a bad thing either. There just comes a time when you realize this and you can't be unhappy and have to move on because it is unhealthy for all involved. As to falling back in love yes it can happen. Maybe a break is called for to reevaluate the situation and your life. If you do seperate try dating each other one ot two nights a week. No commitment no stress just enjoy eachother and all the reasons why you fell in love in the first place coukd come rushing back. Love is a hard scary thing. And sad to say life gets in the way of it to where you either give up or just hang with what ya got cause it's safe and you're afraid to start over.
2006-12-12 09:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by codiesmama5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been together for 15 years, it is time to put some stock into why you are asking this question. You promised to love, honor, and Cherish your spouse. Try to remember why you fell in love in the first place, re-enact some of your most memorable moments with your spouse. Spend some time together. You have probably not fallen out of love, you are just in a rut. Get out of it, all relationships take work. My pastor always says at weddings that you spend 1 day of your marriage in a tux, the rest is spent in over alls!
2006-12-12 09:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jinny E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and yes In other words you can grow to hate and grow to love that person so yes it is possible
2006-12-12 09:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have being with my husband for 12 years and i still love him the same way or more. we do try different things in bed and out of bed as well. it helps a lot..
2006-12-12 09:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it happened to me.
I was married to my wife, Jolie, for 12 years and then one night, she farted in bed. It was really loud.
I felt shocked and disgusted, because I'd never heard her do anything like that before.
Anyway, to cut a long story short, I ended up getting a divorce from her. I hate smelly women.
2006-12-12 09:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by Panama Jack 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sure.
Yet somehow it always seems to go hand-in-hand with meeting someone else.
2006-12-12 09:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by DannyK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and yes
2006-12-12 09:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋