What do people really think about transvestites?

Question

I was basically outed at work recently for wearing panties. And it is true that I'm a sissy transvestite, but I had really hoped to keep this secret more or less to myself. No one at work (an office setting) has directly confronted me about wearing panties, but everyone is treating me differenty and I am basically feeling completely humiliated around both my male and female coworkers now. And I can't help obsessing about what's going through their minds. If you found out that a young, single, attractive guy you worked with wears panties and shaves his legs etc. what would you honestly think about him?

I think I was busted when I was asked by a female coworker to help unjam the copier and I was down on the ground bending over etc. And because I usually wear either shiny, satiny panties or lacy/girly ones, it probably didn't take much exposure for my coworker to realized that they were panties. I'm still freaking out about the whole thing. I really, really did not want everyone I work with to know that I'm a sissy.

Answer 1

It ain't any of my business, but it really seems as though you want people to know.

Answer 2

I personally would have no problem with him at all. However, I know that many people would (more so other men than women, I think). Anyone who is different and strays from the norm, and isn't understood by many, is often the victim of ridicule and hatred because of others fear and ignorance. I'd say be proud and never be ashamed of who you are. Ignore the ones who don't accept you. There will be plenty who will, though. THEY are the types of people you should want as friends anyway.

ps. You're not a sissy!

Answer 3

Several weeks ago at the office i work at, my boss was in on his day off to take care of some things, and he was in his casual clothes. he was in a room crouched down into a cabinet doin something and i walked down the hallway to a different room and as i passed that room i glanced in and i swear to god i saw a thong stickin out of the back out of his pants. honestly, i was a little mortified for the next few minutes, but i apparently forgot about it, because i just now remembered it after reading your post.

its probably not a big deal. your coworkers will get a couple giggles, and then they'll get over it. and probably forget after a while. if you have their respect otherwise and have pretty good relationships with them, they won't let it change how they treat you

Answer 4

First of all,,, how did the people at your work know that you were wearing panties??? Did you show them? Did you tell them???
If so,,, then obviously you want them to know.
As far as i'm concerned,, I don't see a problem with anyone wanting to be who they are. I do believe that the public in general
has a problem with people like you. Do what you want. But don't get mad if someone can't take it! And like I said,,, how did these coworkers know that you were wearing panties???????

Answer 5

I would be ok with it.You should allow a bit more of your sissyness to show like having your fingernails done in a french manicure to stimulate conversation.

Answer 6

I would think its hot....but then again, i am strange. I dont think people will care. yeah they will prolley joke about it, but not to your face. And I feel if someone cant say it to my face, then it aint worth worrying over.

Answer 7

I wouldn't hate you, but I'd definitely giggle behind your back. I'd just think "chemically imbalanced" and leave it at that.

Answer 8

I'd probably be shocked, then I'd laugh, and then I wouldn't care. To each his own.

Answer 9

i don't care as long as they do their job well.