....your friends avoid talking to you or being near you?
2006-12-12 09:16:19 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I know how you feel. I talked too little when my friends had converstaions so they avoided me. Then I spoke up and they talked more to me! Try it! Or vice versa!
2006-12-12 09:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you didi something to cause them to not talk to you then you should try to apologize. Act nice to them be kind. Show that you know that you were wrong and are truley sorry.
If there are a group of them not talking to you and there is a leader. If a new person came and took your friends because they didn't like and had to not be your friend to be her friend. Then you have to point out how bad the leader is. Forget them if they choose her over you. They will relize your eal qualities and will have to live with the guilt with not being your friend.
This is all I can say because you didn't give me a lot of details to work with. Sorry I can't be of much health.
2006-12-12 09:28:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to them about it and sharing your feelings about being ignored and left out and if their rude behavior does not change, you have to assume that they are no longer your friends and move on. Don't bother trying to contact them anymore because obviously they are not interested in a friendship with you anymore.
There are plenty of great people in this world who would love to be your friend!! There are plenty of other fish in the sea, don't worry about the ones floating at the top.
2006-12-12 09:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go right to them and ask them what the problem is because you feel they are treating you different. If they say nothing and continue to act the same way maybe you should find some new friends. Or you could do nothing and just wait for whatever it is to pass. It usually does.
2006-12-12 09:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by bmoregurl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do the following - in this order:
1) do something nice for your friends
2) consider how your life has changed recently
3) consider how your friends' have changed
4) ask yourself if you have unintentionally (or intentionally) hurt someone
5) if yes to #3, apologize
6) if no and they did not respond well to #1 go find some new friends
2006-12-12 09:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Indy Mind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you move on and make other friends. I still have a couple left.They weren't your friends in the first place if they didn't bother too find out both sides of the story and just quit talking to you for no reason.
2006-12-12 09:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by fugly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get new friends. Maybe there's a possibly conflict to be resolved, but if they're avoiding you, well, how could you talk to them. And would they be worth it if that's happening?
2006-12-12 09:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've already tried to relove the problem, and they still are avoiding you, then take a hint and make new friends. At that point, the only thing you can do is annoy them even more.
It sounds like they're not great friends anyway...keep your chin up.
2006-12-12 09:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by loser 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shower
2006-12-12 09:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by The Ascending Serpent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why it's happening! And secondly... if they're just following the crowd because one person doesn't like you, get some new friends!
2006-12-12 09:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by Sami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋