Which is more likely to be a factor to determine gayness?
1.) developing feelings for women over men or
2.) the physical attraction and lust?
I also think men are annoying sometimes. Girls are funner to talk to and flirt with. Plus, I hate it when guys flirt with me, but I get turned on a LOT when girls flirt with me. I don't know if I am as physicallly/emotionally attracted to guys anymore at all. Beginning to wonder if I have been lying to myself this whole time. Currently, I am in love with a friend of mine and this isn't the first friend I have fallen for whom is a woman. (<---Is that wrong I fall for my friends? I have never told them I like them though.)
Anyone care to talk to me and help me through this?
2006-12-12 09:14:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yes always been attracted to same sex since before I could remember-just recently coming more into terms with it.
hahah-how could I go to hell when Christianity isn't my religion? haahah...I will stop there. this isn't the religion forum after all *rolls eyes* not going to preach my religion
2006-12-12 09:25:14 · update #1
1.developing feelings for women over men........thats a more appropriate answer cuz i've also experienced the same....i started loving my friend since the time we were into high emotional n weak situations of our lives,,,i got to know her more n i started liking her....ofcourse she has a very good figure too but it had been the same case even when girls didn't have a good figure though had a clumsy figure......so i would say even if i don't get her body i'll keep loving her ......n sure i can talk to u if u wish
2006-12-12 10:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by kawal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is the gut-level attraction that would determine whether you are a lesbian or not. Do you find women beautiful, sexy, erotic, etc? Have you always felt this way from the very beginning?
If yes, then I would say you are a lesbian.
2006-12-12 17:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by hill_amandalynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's nothing but pure luck, honey.
The only thing wrong with falling for your friends is if the feelings are one-sided, they can damage your friendship. That's universal.
2006-12-12 17:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither. In this day and age, we are educated enough to know that homosexuality isn't determined by anything under our control....it is just how we are born.
2006-12-12 17:17:12 · answer #4 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I belive you should express yourself twards your friends and if they don't accept you and start to shun you then they were not real friends and in fact they were using you for somthing
2006-12-12 17:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by jakebentz 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋