I know a lot of people that are mostly negative. They have been through things that are beyond my imagination. I sit and i let them just vent. I am young (only 19) but i have a lot of friends that vary in age (up to 62 years old). Sometimes they are mostly negative(no matter what age they are) and what i try to do mostly is make them laugh, i believe laughter is sometimes the best medicine. What i came to understand is that a lot of them are that way because they dwell on the past. Rarely are they depressed about anything current. They sit their think about it until tears sometimes they come to eyes. Now i believe all people have went to hard and tough times. Everyone has made huge mistakes and small mistakes. But we can't let them hold us back we've made mistakes and will continue to make mistakes but we have to fix the one's we can and accept the things that we've done that we can not change. I know, I know i sound like Dr. Phil Jr., but truth be told if you have to get a degree in physocology then you aren't learning anything from living life. What you must do is learn from your mistakes, big or small, to make sure that they are not repeated! I know it's long winded but thats what i tell them and when i come around them their mode changes a little bit because they see me as a positve person and for some reason that changes their mode. They are happy to see a person that will make them laugh and advise them with good advice if they need it. But be careful, being around people that only focus on the negative things in their life can have an effect on you negatively. You can become just like them! (OKAY, OKAY, I'm done you can read someone else's answer) LOL
2006-12-12 09:37:17
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answered by qdeezy 3
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Ugh, I just hate when people have to be negative about sexual orientation. I've got so many people at school that dig into my sex life and I'm about ready to either knock 'em the **** out or file for sexual herrassment.
I've got this girl going around, saying that I do my best friend and we eat each other out in between classes. It's getting to the point where I really feel like I'll bash her face into a brick wall. I would never do my best friend, she's straight.
2006-12-12 17:24:49
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answered by ☆Tąrą☆ 3
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I hate people saying YOU CANT DO THAT . it will never work , you wont be able to do that or this . These kind of people make me want to do and finish what ever im into at the time .
2006-12-12 17:15:35
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answered by janice a 4
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cole and sarah if you dont like gay people then why go into a gay questions area. keep your ignorance to yourselves.
2006-12-12 17:19:29
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answered by KellyJeanne 4
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