2006-12-12 09:06:37 · 17 answers · asked by cassiehartman 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
That depends on how old you are. If you're under 18 or not ready for a baby, then do everything possible to make sure you don't GET pregnant. Don't forget to consider abstinence. She just wants what's best for you.
If you ARE already pregnant, regardless of your age, it's too late to worry about what your mother will think. Have the baby...the second the baby arrives your mother will forget all about her previous feelings and will love that little baby with all of her heart, as you will.
God bless. :-)
2006-12-12 09:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how old you are and why she doesn't want you to have a baby.
Are you of legal age? Are you married? Can you afford a baby and support it? Are you financially and emotionally stable? Are you responsible enough to take care of the baby or are you going to dump it on grandma to take care of every day while you go about having fun?
There are many reasons why someone shouldn't have a baby. A baby is a big responsibility and you can't take it back if you aren't 100% satisfied.
2006-12-12 17:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you pregnant?
Can you talk to any counselors at school or at a local clinic who can help you with dealing with your mother?
The bottom line is that this is NOT your mother's decision, it is yours. So don't let your mother force you into a decision you don't want.
Best of luck.
2006-12-12 17:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by hill_amandalynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your already pregnant, she can't make you unpregnant. You will have to go through it. It also depends. Are you old enough? Married? Can you afford it? All those kind of quetions. But as time passes and your belly shows that your obviously pregnant, she'll want to help to. You could have as much children as you want if your ready. It's not her life or up to her, it's your decision. God bless you and I hope it's a good one.
2006-12-12 18:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by Cee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to your mother. If you want to have children then have one or more. It's going to be hard on her if you are, but remember she's your mother she will always love you no matter what. Good Luck.
2006-12-12 17:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by Morena461 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are a child and are not pregnant yet, LISTEN TO HER. Your life that you are used to as it is will cease. You will not get to have a normal childhood. Enjoy being young while you have the chance.
If you are of age, who cares what she says? If you are an adult it is your choice and she will have to deal with it.
2006-12-12 17:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends how old you are first. Then the way I look at things me being a adult I will do as I want NOT what I am told not to do. I am the one who has to make choices in my life and live with them no one else does for me.
2006-12-12 17:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well it matters how old you are if you aren't living with your mother then it is your decision NOT hers but i think once she sees you pregnant & a big ole belly & stuff she will probly want to be a part of it!!! GOOD LUCK !!!!!
2006-12-12 17:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by being patient with love♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old are you. if you still live with your mom then you should respect her. if you're on your own and you can afford to have a baby then go for it.
2006-12-12 17:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by Blank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing is to talk to her. That is what I always do when I have a problem and I talk to them
2006-12-12 17:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Okano-Irl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋