I'm 14 and i live in texas, I just want 2 know why my so called friend Samantha, She pretends to be my friend and tell my other friend not 2 hang out with me??? what the hell?? She always gossips about me and make fun of me behind my back and it's getting to me!!
what do i do?????
2006-12-12 08:56:34 · 20 answers · asked by Baby girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am 15 and was in a ver similar situation a few weeks ago. Ask Samantha what her problem is. No fitting b/c that could lead to other things... Just be straight forward with her and if you need to don't be her friend anymore. About the gossiping... act like it doesn't bother you. Whne you get home express it in a healthy way like writing it down in a journal or talking to a sister- or brother in a last resort. Maybe it's time to get your parents invovled.
2006-12-12 09:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by rain_of_fire2110 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me and now that we aren't friends anymore i have found some other people to be my friends and they are so much better friends than my ex friend. The only bad thing was that it wasn't but a year later that I found my new friends.So if your OK with being alone for a few months or even years.
2006-12-12 09:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by tigerbandgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really cares about u, she wouldnt' do that. obviouslly it shows that she doesn't. Accept the truth. My advice, go up to her and tell her to grow up and stop acting like fart. You will find better and caring friends. If you want revenge, well treat her the same way, eye to an eye but remember u don't want to be a fart too.
2006-12-12 09:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by kiss85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Quit calling her your friend because she is not if she is behaving like that.
2) SOunds like she is jealous of you.
3) Don't let her get to you...just don't have ANYTHING to do with her and she will find someone else to torment or get her a** kicked first.
;p
2006-12-12 08:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ginger P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you shouldn't really hang out with her if you know that Samantha's doing that. If she does that, I don't think she is really your friend. You should hang out with people who don't do that :) .
2006-12-12 08:59:38 · answer #5 · answered by J.R. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said it, she pretends to be your friend. That means she is not your friend. I say don't even give her the time of day. Even if it hurts you very much, never let her hear or see you sweat.
2006-12-12 08:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u comfront her.she doesnt have a right 2 be 2faced and phony!and if your other friend listens to her than she isnt a very good friend
2006-12-12 08:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by tishygurl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to back off!!jks . .just tell her in a polite way that you don't like what she's doing and if she continues with this kinda attitude that perhaps you shouldn't be friends! good luck =]
2006-12-12 08:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u are popular, things happen like that all the time. but if she is you friend and she is treating you like that, i would drop her and get on with you life!
2006-12-12 08:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by emluver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems likes she may be jealous of you for some reason, just ask her why she's talking about you if your supposed to be friends
2006-12-12 08:58:18 · answer #10 · answered by q_tee262003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋