how can you tell if your bf accually still loves you after 6 years or if he is with you because its routine and for the kids? how do i determine if he still wants to be with me when all i do is cook clean take care of kids and see him a couple of hours a day and when i say see him i dont mean communicating just he is here!
2006-12-12 08:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to get out more, and do things. communication is most important in relationships. if he didn't want to be with you, he would be gone. some men just don't know how to show love, but he is there and provides for his family, so i would say he does love u.
2006-12-12 09:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try kickin things up a notch, send the kids away and plan a night just for the two of you. you alll have to get some alone time. or when he comes in from work, walk up to him and throw your arms around him and say I missed you baby, and/or plant a big wet one on him. make him feel that you love him and miss him. Women are not the only ones who need to feel affection you know. This will probably catch him off guard, but it will let him know you are still alive and so is he. "clean up" a little and really show him what he's missing. All the best.
2006-12-12 09:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound so bad that I'm not sure I would be able to keep going.
You need to shake things up a bit. Change the routine.
My husband and I love to watch movies together in bed. We found that we communicate better like that.
Find some private time for both of you to get to know each other again.
2006-12-12 09:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're in a rut! Plan a "date night" for the 2 of you. Get a sitter, go to dinner and maybe drive, a walk on the beach... If the spark's still there you'll know it. If not don't wait until there are hard feelings, stay friends and "move on".
2006-12-12 08:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to break the routine. You two are long over due a night out together.
2006-12-12 09:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by E! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...do you live here? This sounds a lot like our relationship, except we've only been together for four years. P.S. You left out laundry...
2006-12-12 08:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by kmoc123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is some kind of love there, he's sticking around, but I would straight out ask him.
2006-12-12 09:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by jenandybell03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-12-12 09:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋