Lokking better as in more attractive
2006-12-12 08:28:24 · 7 answers · asked by Bob 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Not at all. Allot of physically attractive people are insecure. It has allot to do with their at home lives, their self esteem, who they are inside that defines their security more than what they look like. Just because people tell you your attractive doesn't make you secure. You have to be satisfied and content with yourself, who you are. Not to mention when people start likeing you for only physical attractiveness it makes you doubt your personality and who you are deep down, and is it worth paying any attention to? Doubt like that can damage your self esteem and cause insecurity.
2006-12-12 08:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You're used to looking and feeling one way, and can't get the hang of looking a different way...people might be treating you differently, you might catch a glimpse of yourself in a mirror or store window and be surprised...This often happens if the change is drastic, or sudden (like plastic surgery, or losing a ton of weight quickly), and the person's mind doesn't really have time to catch up to the physical changes that have happened.
2006-12-12 16:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by eXie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Everyone wants to be valued, but very attractive people may realize that people often only pay attention to their looks but not to the person inside. So that might leave them wondering if the person inside is worth paying attention to.
2006-12-12 16:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, no. I used to be fat & plain looking & I was a much better person, more forgiving, more humble, more kind & now I have improved my looks, I've incidentally changed & am not as a good person. I always prefer the former.
2006-12-12 16:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by glgl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is weird, but it happens. You would think a better looking person would be more secure, but the thing about it is security is on the inside of a person, so looks doesn't determine security.
2006-12-12 16:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecurity is never ending. There is always going to be someone who looks better than you.
2006-12-12 16:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by reigning queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Billy Crystal as Fernando ;)
"It's better to look good than to feel good"
2006-12-12 16:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by feanor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋