im in the popular group at school n like all my friends are what u might call 'hot' or 'pretty' ppl tell me all the time that im so pretty n everything but one of my friends is just 'ok' i mean shes pretty n everything but i no im prettier (ppl tell me) i dont no if i should still b her friend. will ppl talk abt me if i still hang out with her?. I also think that shes jealous of me cus im so much prettier than she is but thats not my fault. should i just stay her friend or what?
2006-12-12 08:24:56 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
um....u guyz dont no what ur talking about. i am pretty. even hot. ppl tell me all the time. girlz wanna look like me and guyz wanna date me. ppl even sayi could be a model.
2006-12-12 08:30:37 · update #1
Sure- she can be the smart, witty, inteligent, and homely one, and you can be the stupid, materialistic, shallow, and pretty one that ends up being knocked up by a little racially confused white boy who holds a job at Blockbuster for the rest of his life! Why not??!!!! Oh my God!
2006-12-12 08:28:46 · answer #1 · answered by wvucountryroads 5 · 14⤊ 0⤋
WOW!!!! I never thought I would ever see another STUPID question of yours. Seriously, you need to get a life an grow up already.
To answer your question, do your ACTUALLY pretty friend a favour and don't be friends with her anymore. By the sounds of it, you aren't anyways. I bet you just use her for her history notes or something. I guess you need a mkeover, since your so damn ugly. Grow up you little immature freak, nobody likes people with an attitude like yours.
p.s don't say that I'm ugly or jealous of you, because I'm NOT ugly and I'm NOT jealous of you, and probably, neither are many other people. So to your other question, the one with you being so much prettier than everyone elses, your SOO OBVIOUSLY NOT and need to learn a little something about life: be nice to the so called "ok" and "ugly" people, because they'll become your bosses, unless you become a regular street whore, so GOOD LUCK IN LIFE!!! :D:D:D
2006-12-12 13:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by intherain; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty is as pretty does, is the phrase that come to mind, some people might be pretty on the outside but, what about the inside? If you think that you are pretty then look again at your mirror and you will find who really is prettier I am betting it's your friend. What if you had an accident and your face would be disfigured what are you going to say, that you are prettier than your friend, Please examine your ego because it's as large as the empire state building, and do not judge other people if you do not want to be judged. I feel sorry for you.
2006-12-12 08:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must also look inside the person, the true beauty lies inside. If you become vain and self center you are not beautiful at all. There are a lot of physically attractive people out there and if you base phyical attractiveness to determine whether or not someone can be your friend or not, someone may come along who looks better than you do, and decide that you are not attractive enough to be there friend. That may really hurt your feelings, like you would hurt your friend's feelings that you think may not be as attractive as you are. Look at your friend for other qualities outside of looks, as we all grow older eventually those good looks will fade.
2006-12-12 08:35:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, you make me absolutly sick! People like you are concieted, annoying b1tch3s, and you think you are royalty just because of your social status. I am sure you are pretty, but hon, you need to get some depth to you, or you will be hated by the intelectuals all your life. I bet you are one of those preppy bimbos that prances around thinking you are SO great! I had a friend who ditched me because i wasn't "cool" (aka CONFORMIST!!) enough, and trust me sweetie, it hurts like nothing else. YOu are a crappy friend for even asking this question. WHO CARES IF PEOPLE TALK??? If she is your friend, you will stick by her.
You are about as shallow as a puddle in the desert, get a life you concieted whore! i normally write best of luck, but you know what, I'm not, because you deserve to lose all your friends to someone prettier and more "popular" than you! You are such a conceited clone!!!
2006-12-12 08:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jinx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you for real how old are you life to bloody short for this ppl are dying out there why don't you go do some volunteer work at a hostel or kids home see how the real world is.some friend you are remember beauty fades dumb is forever i really hope you find what it is your looking for in life because hun your gonna get a few knock downs with an attitude like that
2006-12-12 09:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by upyafartpipe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self centered little snot is what you are - you're friend deserves better - if your olnly requirement for friends are them being pretty them you live a very sad life.
I have a feeling you are going to end up pregnant in a couple years, then no one is going to think you are pretty/hot when you are running around with a child - and you will have no friends because you lost them all due to your snotty little attitude.
2006-12-15 14:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by Rae T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, hon. You must be very young. Because the older you get, the more friends you will lose if you keep that attitude. Who is talking about you because you're hanging out with this girl? Your so-called friends? They don't sound too friendly to me, either.
I think you need a change, dear. Vanity isn't the trend these days.
2006-12-12 09:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by hevs55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey what you don't realize and I'm sure your "friend" doesn't either is that you are and never were her friend. If you were you would not ask such a question. You do not choose friends by how they look, you choose friends by how good of time you have with them, thier loyalty to you and you to them. How they make you feel and how you make them feel. I think you should stay away from her, because she doesn't need people like you in her life. As you get older you will learn that shallowness does not get you very far in life.
2006-12-12 08:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Love United 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you know the meaning of the word "SHALLOW" when it is put in the context of a persons character?
Because that is EXACTLY what you are, SHALLOW!
I really hope for your sake that you will one day grow into a person who is less concerned about a persons looks, & a lot more concerned about a person's character.
Meanwhile, since you are so concerned about what people think about you, try getting a new attitude about yourself & others because I for one don't like you very much the way you are right now. :(
2006-12-12 08:34:07 · answer #10 · answered by No More 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never ever do that. just because of her looks you shouldn't just let her go. i mean...she's been friends with you all this time (i'm guessing) and if other people haven't cared about who you hang out with, then it shouldn't be a problem. but honestly if you're thinking about actually letting one of your friends go just because you afraid people will talk about you and that your friend is not as pretty as you, then i think she's the one that should stop being friends with you. don't judge people by the way they look.
2006-12-12 08:30:50 · answer #11 · answered by Shookoolate 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋