I just want to tell the guy that I've loved for 3 years that I love him. We have been practically best friends since I entered Middle School. He is 17 and I am 15. We've always been there for each other and I somehow fell in love with him this year. I just want to tell him the truth, but he has a girfriend, who barely knows him and is a fake. Help me, please!
2006-12-12 08:19:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All I can suggest you do is wait, It could be that he will find out what kind of girlfriend he really has, it is then he will need someone to turn to. This is when you should be ready to disclose your true feelings towards him. I hope my answer helps you.
2006-12-12 08:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree with Hmmmmm. Face to face contact, while emotionally more strenuous (if i spelled that wrong, sorry. I suck balls at spelling) is definetly more meaningful in the long run, and you don't have to agonize over his reaction until you see him next. It could be that you are sending out, "I just want to be friends" signals, and if that is the case then he obviously has NO IDEA you like him! You really have to speak up, and if he looks weird, you can always say PSYCH!!!!! And then laugh hysterically.
One thing you must remember however, is that while to you his girlfriend may seem like a fake, how does he see her? Do not go on and on about how awful she is; you don't want to jeopordize your friendship. However, if he is just dating her out of pity, or something else, you might have a chance. Just be careful, polite, sensitive and tactful. Have poise, humor, and knowledge, and you will be good to go!
I sincerly hope I could help, because I am dealing with a stressful friend/crush issue right now, so I am totally sympathetic. Best of luck! Jinx
2006-12-12 16:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and let it out. Take a chance. You have been close for a long time and he will either take you serious and discuss it with you or he will laugh it off. Either way, you risk your relationship with him when it comes to matters of the heart. Just be prepared for the outcome of the discussion. You can either laugh it off with him or be devastated. Chances are, the relationship he has with this other girl could be as superficial as she is. Most boys aren't looking for "love" at that age. They just want sex. Maybe he feels the same about you. Maybe not. Who knows until you ask...........Good Luck.
2006-12-12 16:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by servant2heaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him now before he gets to involved with this other girl. Don't try and break them up, but he may feel the same way about you. If he is really a good friend don't worry about letting him know that you like him more than just friends.
2006-12-12 16:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by CLAUDE D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not tell him - continue to be there for him. You are too young for the kind of relationship that it would create. If he loved you he would not have a girlfriend, now would he?
2006-12-12 16:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by lynnie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should take a chance you have known him for a long the chances are is that it will work out. Take him into a room by himselfand tell him how you fell.Then make out with him.
Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-12 16:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tater Chip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody is going to say it so I might as well. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO KNOW WHAT LOVE IS!!!!
That being said, just tell him! Us guys are really dumb about that sort of thing.
2006-12-12 16:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one, well the computer is always a good way to tell someone. Tell them on IM its ALOT easier to tell people stuff on there, or in email
2006-12-12 16:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rylee Loves Cole. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
write him a note or i.m. him its easier than just plain out saying it
i hope i could help
2006-12-12 16:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by Taylor A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP AND ASK HIM SOON BEFORE ITS TO LATE
2006-12-12 16:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋