My husbands friends have all been getting married over the last few years...my husband was first.. Anyway, they always get a hotel room overnight and I'm sure they hire a stripper or two. My husband says the stripper dances and leaves but I really wonder sometimes. Guys, whats the real deal??
2006-12-12 08:15:23 · 11 answers · asked by mrsleslie_lady 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This really depends on your man. Some men will sleep with the strip if the opportunity is there while others may not.
YOu have to realize that the stripper has to want sex with the guy too unless they hire a hooker instead of an entertainer.
Most of the parties will allow men to touch the stripper but that's pretty much it. Strippers are there to tease the men...to arouse them...but not sleep with them. Their goal is to make money.
2006-12-13 06:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by The Doctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the ladies are raffled off and usually the fella that's getting hitched wins. However, on more than one occassion the girl has a friend call the police to report that her room has been busted into and so they come and remove the female before anything gets really going. Smart lasses these girls. If live entertainment isn't there then there is always films to watch while gambling. Proceeds from gambling and drinks go to the groom at end of the night or next day when everyone is sober. Honestly it is usually just a bunch of guys showing off their macho sides and filling the air with the sweet smell of bulls**t and usually very harmless. I have been to plenty of stags and have to report that I've never witnessed any of the guys getting lucky with the dancers as they are usually there to do a job and get out ASAP, because they are pretty wise also and know the dangers of being there too long. If girls are controlled by bikers they sometimes have escorts with them and the fella's behave pretty well around these guys, some fellas's are unaware of this and get all their hopes and dreams dashed by the girls being escorted in by a big biker fella. Do not worry about your mate attending as most are harmless as the girls going out to celebrate with male strippers, actually in all honestly probably less goes on with the males then with the females after a night of heavy drinking.
2006-12-12 08:29:59 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I'm told, men hire a stripper during stag party and most of the time this stripper is given as a gift to the soon-to-be-groom in celebration for his final chance to endulge in his freedom... but the rest of the guys that leaves then a prerogative to enjoy but outside the hotel room. Trust your husband, he loves you strippers are strippers nothing more nothing less....
2006-12-12 08:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rochelle5969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, we all get together and share found childhood memories and the wisdom that our fathers have given to us about the "birds & the bees". Then we shave a sheep and use the wool to make a special friendship quilt that will be burned under the first full moon after the wedding. Then the groom is forced to wear a dunce cap and remove his pants to symbolize he no longer knows what he's doing and that he has chosen to give up all control in his life. After spanked, he is spanked by each member of the group, he is taken to a darken place where the book of knowledge is presented to him. He is only allowed to seek the meaning to Three thing and then is to write a thousand word essay on how this knowledge will better his life. If the groom fails perform as required his butt is immediately shaved and branded "Doofus". Then we get him drunk and put him to bed with the shaved sheep.
2006-12-12 09:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset if he said there wasn't going to be strippers then I found out there was just because it would seem like something did happen and he was trying to hide it from me. If he was honest about it then I would just let it go. His friends planned the party not him so he probably didn't have a say in it anyway. If it bothers you then make sure you both are on the same page that seeing strippers in not going to be acceptable behavior in your marriage.
2016-05-23 15:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had mine at home, but we did have a stripper and she got a little wild, but I didn't do anything I did not tell my wife about.
The last 2 bachelor party's I went to where at the strip club, and you can't get away with much there.
2006-12-12 08:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by Todd V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was a few guys drinking beer and playing darts (a dangerous combination).
A few guys get a hooker to have sex with.
All others are in between.
Don't let anyone tell you most guys doink strippers. That is minority (5% at best) and women use it to justify whatever crazy stuff they do at their bachelorette parties (which can also be absolutely anything).
2006-12-12 08:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. I was fortunate that my husband didn't want a bachelor party; he said they are disrespectful and not to his liking - and I agree with him.
I would imagine they can get pretty wild, but some guys just go out to comedy shows or to a sports game so it's not all crazy.
2006-12-12 08:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i,ve got a funny story and this happen to me at my bachelor party . My best friend got a limo for me and 5 of my male friends on our way to my party my wife to be pulled over my limo and mad me get out in the middle of the hwy so no party for me well after we got married the next day every thing went ok except my wife kicked my best man out of my weading about two years later I was cleaning out my garage and I pick up some books and these pictures feel out turns out my exwife now had a bachelorett party some male dancer had her pent up against the wall I just thought you would get a kick out ouf it just use good judgement
2006-12-12 08:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no different than what the girls do at bachelorette parties except we have female strippers and you have male strippers.
2006-12-12 08:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋