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Because they are lacking something. It could be something minor like a compliment once in awhile or something major like being taken for granted day in and day out. It is a cry for help.

2006-12-12 08:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by ashashbaby 3 · 0 0

Well, it is like this. If a husband is an alcoholic, she will find someone who isn't. If he is a drug user, She will find someone who isn't. If things aren't the way they were when they met however many years ago, She will try to find it again in someone else. A woman maybe to the fed up point in there life where nothing the husband does is good enough anymore. Another real biggie is empty promises. If her husband keeps promising things and doesn't follow through with it . Never puts enough thought into gift giving and gives gifts that will give her more work to do. If she is unhappy with herself for any reason at all, insecurities. She will cheat. I don't know why this is, unless she has a pattern in her life of this type of behavior. Look into her eyes, tell her your true feelings, Let her know what is real of yourself and your relationship. If that doesn't work then forgive and let die the cheating If first time offense. If more then once then split up and try dating again if you still love her.

2006-12-12 08:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by Storm 1 · 0 0

I was married for 21 years to a man who cheated on me nonstop. I started cheating making sure that he would find out, so that hopefully he would stop me and stop cheating. Never happened. I finally left him.

I've been married for 4 years now. I've thought about cheating, but haven't. The main reason is that I don't get the attention I used to get.

At first people told me that they could see how much he loved me and I was so lucky because they knew how my ex treated me.

Well now, it seems like we rarely talk. His main interest is race cars, not me. What really bothers me is that on the weekends, he never takes a shower, doesn't shave for days, never even combs his hair. It's like we've been married for 4 years now and he doesn't care. We're married, I don't have to try anymore. That doesn't turn me on in the least.

If he could go spend all weekend at the races, he wouldn't care what I was doing. I keep telling him that he's given me every reason and all the time in the world to cheat on him and it doesn't seem to phaze him. That really bothers me.

I wish that he cared more about me, cared more about his looks, and didn't think that just because we're married it doesn't mean that we'll never cheat.

A few years ago, I would've cheated on him in a minute. He's given me every opportunity and I'm still not really sure he'd care. That's why a lot of wives cheat. They feel like they don't mean anything to their husbands anymore.

2006-12-12 18:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by Karen H 5 · 0 0

I think SOME women cheat on their husbands for the same reasons why SOME MEN cheat on their wives... dissatisfaction, irreconcilable differences, inadequate attention, fallen out of love and perhaps just plain simple excitement...

2006-12-12 08:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by Rochelle5969 2 · 0 0

The excitement is gone in the marriage.
The husband doesn't "look" at you the way he used to, and someone else does.
The husband isn't "taking care of business" at home, and someone comes along talking a smooth talk, offering everything that you don't.
The wife feels out of sorts, got married too young, for example, and wonders what it would be like to be "with someone else" especially if you were the first, one and only.
She tries to talk to you, but you don't listen, and someone else is more than willing.
Someone flatters her, at a vulnerable time, and you are blind to her or her needs.
She doesn't feel sexy, and someone makes her feel that way.
Usually, it has nothing to do with "physical" things...more emotional things for women.
Maybe you aren't there for her emotionally, and the temptation of someone else offering that becomes too much.

2006-12-12 08:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0 0

because they dont feel validated in the relationship anymore. all anyone really wants is to feel like they matter. this world can be so hard sometimes. people can be cruel, circumstances dont always go your way, so a women needs their man to say and do special things for them to let them know they are the best thing the worlds ever done or given or offered them. you can do this by discovering what actions make her feel cherished. is it ur time, presents, doing a chore around the house she doesn't like t do her self. if a women doesn't feel loved and special and protected she will find someone who will.

2006-12-12 08:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by trooper (canine bad citizen) 3 · 0 0

When men have a good woman at home and cater to his every need and show nothing but love toward him. When the men start having outside affairs, not communicating, show no interest in their woman, and when they start acting bore with relationship or marriage a woman goes out and find the man who's going to give her everything she needs that she isn't getting at home.

2006-12-12 08:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The same reason a man would. They are not monogamous.

There are many people out there who are into open and sexually free relationships and they should date each other and leave monogamous people alone.

I do not think monogamous people are better or worse. It is simply a choice in the type of relationship that one wants.

2006-12-12 08:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0 0

Lust. Keep your woman happy, emotionaly - buy her little things, take her to romantic places, tell her how pretty she looks
Physicaly - Satisfy her in bed bring in new toys
Show her that you apprciate all the things she does for you,

When a woman cheats its because she is in NEED of something that somw one else is probably offering her at the moment.

2006-12-12 08:18:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1 0

1. in a marriage but feel alone
2. husband is away alot and refuses to come home
3. we arent getting what we need at home
4. not inlove with husband


im sure there are more reasons, but couldnt think of anymore

2006-12-12 08:14:15 · answer #10 · answered by bayouktty6969 2 · 1 0

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