Both, but the sad part lingers because of the loss of what might have been. We both kind of messed it up at different points. If I had met him later in life I would have married him, but I was young and foolish.
Then again, when I did run into him a few years after, he was mean and cynical. I do think about him - I hope he has gone back to being the wonderful man I loved rather than the bitter a**hole that I met the last time.
Life is all about timing, isn't it?
2006-12-12 09:53:58
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answer #1
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answered by slipstreamer 7
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Everything happens for a reason and they got away for a reason but it's nice to think back because it does make you smile and a little part of you wishes you could see them once more, but it's best to just keep it in "your special thoughts".
2006-12-12 16:05:01
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answered by sarabmw 5
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At first it makes me smile, and then I kind of get a little upset. But sometimes that's a blessing in disguise. Hard to say if it could have been any better if things went the other way.
2006-12-12 16:05:48
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answered by Master Kenobi 4
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just to reminise, really. we were each other's first loves, it was the classic highschool sweetheart thing. but he was 2 years older than me, so after he graduated and went to college, i was still in highschool, so that gap caused a lot of problems for us, and we eventually broke up. from there our lives took different directions, he got a degree in computer engineering and became very career driven, and i had children and became a family driven person. i look back on our time together as a learning experience, i'm a better person because of it.
2006-12-12 16:19:05
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answer #4
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answered by LoriBeth 6
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A little bit of both...I would miss them a lot and wanna see them again and maybe things would have been different if they had never gone...I would be happy that i did know them atleast!
2006-12-12 16:05:01
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answered by Anonymous
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I only had one that got away and I do reflect on him every now and again. But I wound up with a great guy so at the end of the day, it doesn't matter too much to me now. He was hot though!
2006-12-12 16:03:16
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answered by BROWNITE 4-ever 6
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A little bit happy, little bit sad. Bittersweet is the word I would use to describe the feeling.
2006-12-12 16:05:19
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answered by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5
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Oh yes. It usually makes me happy to think about him. I see how much I've grown since then & I now realize that everything happens for a reason.
2006-12-12 16:04:13
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answered by lynn 5
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Definately both. You should never cry because it is over, you should be glad that it happened. I am so happy that it turned out the way it did because my husband is amazing and I love him very much.
2006-12-12 16:04:26
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answered by jayjay 2
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Both
2006-12-12 16:02:55
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answered by Anonymous
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