Or if you just decided you dont want it anymore, would you give your partner permission to have sex with someone else every once in a while to relieive the tension or no?
2006-12-12 07:29:57 · 20 answers · asked by TrofyWife 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is actually a difficult question.
If I were to become very ill and could not have sex of any kind because of my sickness I think I might allow him to find a lover. I wouldn't want to hear about it, and I wouldn't want it to interfere with his care and dedication to me. I think I would, I can't say for sure....since I haven't been put in that sort of situation.
However, if I just didn't want to have sex anymore because I'm being frigid then I would just hand him divorce papers for his own good.
2006-12-12 07:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I begged!! my husband to get a girl on the side because he wanted it three times a day and with how tired I was once a week was plenty for me at the time- plus he had cheated on me in the begining of the relationship I figured it would be easy for him- I guess when you "let" them do it, its not fun anymore-
Not sure if I would make the same choices in the future
2006-12-12 15:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Its for better or worse. If my partner "didn't want to" anymore that's different. That means something has changed and it either needs to be fixed or the relationship ends. If they were unable to be sexual with me that's different, and masturbation can relieve the tension.
2006-12-12 15:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are 2 different scenarios. My husband is very sexual and if I couldn't have sex (accident or something like that) I might consider it. If I just didn't want sex with him anymore, then I might just move on from the relationship because it wouldn't be fair to him or me.
2006-12-12 15:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by MiMi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a very tough question. I've actually thought about it before, and I decided that IF anything like that ever happened, I'd let my gf occasionally have sex with someone else IF she let me watch.
I'd hate to be thinking what was happening behind closed doors, but if I could watch, I'd be ok with it.
2006-12-12 15:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Raven 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she wanted to...I would allow her to play around as long as I knew about each time beforehand, and I gave my okay. I'd also want to be present to watch. Play around - yes...but no intercourse. Giving/receiving oral, anal, handjobs, kissing, holding, etc... are all fair game, but no sex.
2006-12-12 16:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by Guvo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, because that's just giving consent to cheat. What part of the wedding vows where it says Forsaking ALL others don't you understand?
2006-12-12 21:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, as long as he first moved out and had nothing to do with me anymore.
2006-12-12 15:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no!
A relationship is about trust and love, not sex. If my partner couldn't accept a sexless marriage, then it would be over.
2006-12-12 15:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by Ritz Grimarren 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No... Luckily, my husband doesn't really care about sex, so I will probably never run into this dilemma.
2006-12-12 15:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋