Hi, i've been married for 7 years now and i am trying to some new ideas for the bedroom. We are pretty much an open minded couple when it comes to most things, so i am game for whatever you guys have to offer who are in similiar circumstances.
For example, on of the things we like to do is place down a shower curtain over the bed, oil-massage ourselves up with baby oil and go to town. The shower curtain protects your bed from getting messy, then just toss it away afterward. I would like to have reasonable, intelligent answers, not someone telling me we should install a trampeze. Thanks.
2006-12-12 07:26:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ahhh....the old slip-n-slid....brings back memories!!!!!
Okay, here are somethings you can do...since you say you are open...leave the bedroom! There are other rooms in the home/apt. If you are really daring...go outside! My ex and I used to go outside at night in our old apt complex...places like the pool or hot tub! City parks, park benches are great!...we even did it inside the Longhorn Football Stadium before they locked the damn thing up! Don't forget to "go down in an elavator"....
Back seat of the car is old...but if the car is in a parking lot that is busy!!!
The idea is maybe to ad the element of getting caught once in a while...puts an edge on an already good sex life!
2006-12-12 07:46:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I hope I am not being too forward here but isn't this private? There's a reason why our parents don't teach us things like this...it's something left the to the couple and sacred. Romance, of course, is a different story because we should be able to remember witnessing as a child or seeing elsewhere. One might get more answers by asking questions about romantic ideas but first trying to come up with some on one's own.
2006-12-12 15:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had dealt with this some time ago. Here is some suggestions. Try role playing that is alot of fun, Mutual masturbation, Masturbate for her ( some women find this a turn on), Toys lots of toys ( you can never have enough toys), Take the fun out of the bedroom ( if this is a option for you), Lingerie ( you and her), Read erotic stories together. Maybe bring another into the bedroom. The sky is the limit but you need to find out what her limit is.
2006-12-12 15:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by sillymomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first have you tried differnt postions or role playing also you could pick up some sex toys and use them on each other be sure that if you do though that they are water proof and that they are easy for cleanup try these ideas and have fun
2006-12-12 15:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey, all jokes aside, my neighbor had a trampoline in the barn that they get busy on
2006-12-12 15:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the fear of being caught is hot
2006-12-12 15:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by collegechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try watching porno with your spouse
2006-12-12 15:29:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋