My husband had an affair 6mos ago that went on for at least a month.( so I was told, he was caught by email) They worked together untill soon after I found out and she left but recently she has gotten her job bk but just working at a different store, tx messaged my husband saying that he better make sure that he deletes all evidence of her working there so I called her bk on the cell phone and she lyed to me saying she was someone else even though I know her voice (her voice is pretty much scetched into my brain) and called me crazy and wont talk to me even though I don't quit understand why she wont talk to me if she has nothing to hide...people dont usually try to hide if they have nothing to hide...right??
2006-12-12 07:10:44 · 7 answers · asked by pitnomore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SOUNDS LIKE THE OLD MAN IS NOT DONE TAPPING THAT ***
2006-12-12 07:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by tacoma_fast_ball 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start - why is she texting your husband ?? Secondly, sort your husband out not the girl. She took what was available - a married man - if he didn't make himself available she wouldn't have been able to go out with him.
I blame your husband not the girl. It would be the same if I found out my husband was having an affair, I would sort him out not the girl.
If you do feel strongly though get one of your friends to phone her work place, ask the receptionist if blah blah b.i.t.c.h. is there and have a go about her. In the end the bosses will be angry that the company are receiving bad calls and sack her. Laugh
2006-12-14 00:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she be talking to you, and why would you be talking to her? It's between you and your husband, you need to be talking to HIM about it. HE needs to shape up and cut the ties with the woman. She is understandably uncomfortable speaking to you, and whether or not she has something to hide has no bearing on her not wanting to share it with you. Stop harrassing her (yes, calling someone when they told you not to is harrassment), and harrass your husband instead. He was the one who got this mess started, and he needs to be responsible for ending it.
2006-12-12 07:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh she is a triflin' heifer isn't she??? You know one thing that we women tend to forget is that it takes two. So, maybe she is not the one you should be mad with. Although I'm sure that you want to whoop her @&&, look at everything. Don't focus just on her. Keep your eyes open.
2006-12-12 07:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Gina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you contacting her in the first place??? what is wrong with you? this is your husband's responsibility to get rid of this woman. not yours. don't you dare get involved. i don't know why women go after the other woman when it's their men they need to castrate.
2006-12-12 07:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt want to face what she has done. A cheater is also a liar.
2006-12-12 07:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her job and beat her *** you warned her to stay the hell away
2006-12-12 07:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by caron d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋