i dont know who i am.and what i wanna be.
2006-12-12 06:55:24 · 4 answers · asked by flo 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Set goals, work towards them, constantly reassess if this is the direction you want to be heading. Be open to change if it's necessary, and be strong enough to stand your ground when it's necessary.
The goals you set should be short and long-term, and for various areas of your life- financial, career, personal fulfillment, etc. Once you set some goals, you will know where you should devote your energies.
2006-12-12 07:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by keengrrl76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is simply no way to answer this without YOUR help. You have to decide who you are or who you want to be. Who you are is the sum total of your life experiences. You have a great deal of input on that. Only you know what will make you happy in life. I can tell you that it really isn't that difficult to have a happy life. You need positive relationships with family and friends. Some moderate financial success is a plus. Don't think rich...most rich people really aren't that happy. There is a higher divorce and suicide rate for people with greater net worth. Its argued that satisfaction in life comes from reaching goals. When you accomplish something, it makes you feel good about you. When you are happy with you, it makes you more attractive to other people. You have to decide what you want...set reasonable goals and begin working to achieve those goals. Don't let people tell you that happiness is not achievable....it is, but it takes effort.
2006-12-12 15:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by Robert A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you spend some time learning all about your self, for example, think what makes you smile, think of something that has happened in your life that made you extremely happy.it could be a new love, or just because it was a fine and sunny day. until YOU know who you are others will treat you with the negativity that you show.think of something you may like to achieve and set out to do it, think positive, have self confidence ,if you have setbacks it is not failure,just try again from a different angle.
Good luck to you, i'm sure you'll get there.
2006-12-12 15:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by poetrygirl on line 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's a journey. Work hard at whatever you are doing at the time, and life has a way of working it all out. You have to define what success is to you. When your life is over, others may judge you a loser, or be insanely jealous of you, but who cares? The key point is to pick a path, really work hard at it, and see where the ride goes. Can I possibly stress the work hard aspect again?
2006-12-12 15:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by Boatman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋