What do I do?
Well me and my girl have been on and off for about 8 months mainly because of me I've been breaking up with her mainly just little things every time she makes me mad I find take the easy way out and thats breaking up with her and I did it again yesterday. Because I asked her if she slept with anyone since we've been broken up and she said yes.and we've been broken for about 2 months and I've been trying to get back with her within that 2 months but finally we did last thursday and I guess she slept with someone within that 2 months. But the thing she has a history of sleeping around like last year she slept with both of her boyfriends friends and him. She even said one time they were taking turns on her but this is last year. I thought she had changed but a few weeks ago she shows me a picture of her face and I guess some guy she talks to hit her. I try my best I love her with all my heart and more. So do I move on?
2006-12-12 06:16:50 · 13 answers · asked by shawn305nda614 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What she does when you are broken up is none of your business- especially if you're the one that did the breaking up.
2006-12-12 06:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tecnically, if you are broken up regardless if it is a day or a week or a month or whatever you were not with her in that period of time, she can sleep with whoever she feels like sleeping with. just because you have morals and dont do it just as of repect for yourself, does not mean she is the same way. you can not dwell on what she does in the past regardless if you were in it or not, you need to respect her in the present and if you want her to be in your future. but if you are going to continue to break up with her everything she does somethign wrong, then maybe you should not have a relationship with her period.
and if she lets a man hit her, it is her problem not yours to feel sorry about her and take her back. it can all be a brain game for her also.
there is a saying that states " love is like fishing in the ocean, you will always find someone new",.
you need to figure out if you want someone like this in your life. if not you can always tell her you rather have her like a friend with benefits and see if she will go for that.
2006-12-12 06:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know her age or yours but it sounds like she is having personal issues with her self-esteem. she is sleeping around with different guys while you two are briefly separated, sleeping with these guys all at once and now someone is hitting her. my heart goes out to her but you need to step back from this. she has things she needs to work out on her own. if you want to be there for her, understand that she isn't always going to make you happy because she may not be happy with her personal situations.
2006-12-12 06:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by morequestions 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love her with all your heart, you have to move on. Relationships don't work in the long run if you don't love someone completely. Be totally honest with yourself and ask yourself how you feel. You'll know the answer - trust your heart.
2006-12-12 06:19:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it like this, a relationship is an investment in your future, so if you invest in this lady, what do you think your return will be down the road. also, is this someone you would want to raise your daughter, is this the influnece you would want your kids to look up to? be picky about the people you choose to have in your life, you are worth more then that.
2006-12-12 06:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you need to cut her loose now this is not healthily for you and your mind or body and if she is sleeping around then i hope that protection and practicing safe sex is happening there are to many disease and the main on HIV AIDS have not been cured you don't want to fall viticim to that by sleeping with someone that can infect you by sleeping around so much
2006-12-12 06:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by nazwats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MoVE ON!! this girl sounds like too much for a level headed guy like yourself.
let some crazy guy who is into sharing take your place. she will get over it.
2006-12-12 06:19:28 · answer #7 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like it's bugging you so much that its seems better to move on.
2006-12-12 06:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO WEL UM I REALLY THINK U SHOULD LEAVE HER CUZ IF SHE REALLY LOVED U SHE WOULD HAVE NEVER SLEEP WITH ANY ONE IN THE 1ST PLACE! SO I AM SORRY BUT IT WOULD BE BETTER IF U LEAVE HER CUZ THAT AINT RITE FOR HER TO DO THAT TO YOU! YA!
2006-12-12 06:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-12-12 06:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋