i am getting so frustrated... i am not getting pregnant. everything is healthly ive tried ovulation kits, ovulex..any advise? pleasae help
2006-12-12 06:02:57 · 16 answers · asked by tekna1760 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I've been there and I just wanna give you a :::hug::: first of all.
Second of all breath!! It will happen!!!!
My advice is to
1) order some PreSeed (www.preseed.com) I know many women who got pregnant on their first or second cycle of using this.
2) Start having sex every other day from cycle day 10 until you know for sure you've ovulated.
3) after you have sex lay on your back for 10 min with your hips elevated afterwards....the next time you have sex lay on your stomach with your hips elevated afterwards (some women have a tilted cervix and dont know it and this will ensure that sperm gets to where it needs to go).
Good luck!!!!!!
2006-12-12 06:06:13 · answer #1 · answered by alexis73102 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same boat as u... I'm going on fertility drugs soon...
and today i just found out that my girlfriend is 14 weeks pregnant (and already has a 14 month old son) and shes having an abortion this Saturday. I;m so mad and hurt... its just not fair!!!!
But here are a few things that u and ur other half can do that may help ur chances: (not saying that u do any of them) But
If u smoke cigarettes quit
if u drink at all don't - (this is a big one but more for the guys)
watch what u eat - only eat healthy things
keep ur stress levels down
Get lots of sleep (so that u never feel run down)
and don;t look at it as ur trying, look at it as if it happens then it happens!
but good luck and keep ur hopes high :)
2006-12-12 14:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by laydenirvine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was having the same problem and found out I was completely misjudging my ovulation time and cycle length. I read Taking Charge of your Fertility and feel much more confident. I am about to ovulate (tomorrow or the next day) I know that for sure now based on my bidy temp and cervical mucas and position of my cervix. I highly recommend this book - it will help relieve some stress, make you feel in control and understand yourself better.
Good luck!
2006-12-12 15:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by family_matters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and stop putting so much pressure o your self that makes things harder.....you say everything is healthy and that's great...what you need is a romantic weekend getaway....don't think about it just relax worry about u not getting prego....make sex fun don't make it a job....and you Will get pregnant when your body is ready....that what i did after 5 months of trying....we took a weekend getaway and now I'm 22 weeks pregnant....GOOD LUCK
2006-12-12 15:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by devoe442004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may need to see a fertility doctor or it may not be you - it could be your partner. Don't sweat it though, my very good friend tried for a couple years and she was feeling just like you but, I am happy to say she now has an adorable 20 month old! Good luck!
2006-12-12 14:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by Cindy J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was trying just like except for 8 years and i never got pregnant until now i am nine weeks and I am very proud. I tried everything from prenatal care pills to geritol tonic and nothing worked and i just stopped trying and then i got pregnant. so i would say dont try to put to much in it and your dream will come true.
2006-12-12 21:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by Josetta U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife was on fertality treatment for ages no luck we gave up she came off it then she got pregnant. Then 2 months after having our first little bundle of joy she got pregnant again.
If you ask me its psychosomatic you need to chill out and relax and take it as it comes pardon the pun.
Remember its supposed to be fun too.
2006-12-12 14:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bohdisatva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are really stressing yourself out over this. Try not to think about it. Have the attitude that "if it happens, it happens." The more you stress and think about having a baby, the more strain you put on your body.
2006-12-12 14:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by dabean003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be trying to hard and becoming tense. Try relaxing a little be. It took me three years with my first one, then ended up with six. So it may take you some time to get started.
2006-12-12 14:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u keep stressing for it the chemicals and hormones will prevent u from getting preggos just relax and enjoy working on it it is more fun making a baby than anything else
2006-12-12 14:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by creed_1120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋