i loved someone as said earlier. we love both each other very much, but her parents are againest our marriage, I am far away from her at present, her parents doesnot want to do love marraige as love marraige is againest her family rules and also her parents are more rich than me so they doesnot want marriage, my parents are with me, but they do marriage with girl parents decision, if i do court marriage then I have to live without my parents, and for this I have to also come to India and search for suitable job, I am unable to come india for two months and her parents preeure her to do marriage to someone else , what i do , help me
2006-12-12 05:56:54 · 6 answers · asked by sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are In a hard position I understand but you see it dosent matter who is rich and who is poor and if she really loves u than she will have to stand her ground and tell her parents that she wants to marry you
2006-12-12 06:00:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jasmeen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main question is...do you really love each other to get married ?
If the answer is YES, the both of you need to show it in a way that the talking become unnecessary, create ways to get together and for sure be closer and closer to help one another for together solve and overcome all the situation that may come through the way.
2006-12-12 14:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Clainei Randeles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl really loves you, she wont be pressured in to marriage If you communicate with this girl, why not be engaged and this will ensure that no other person will marry her. Make it a binding contract with a lawyer. Then, concentate on your careers and studies, the both of you, and then marry later on.
You and she, I hope, will live on beyond your parents, ok, you say you will lose them but the marriage will go on beyond them we hope. Anyway, they may come round in years to come especially if you have children.
2006-12-12 14:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi friend, i will tell you one thing.
parents are the only GOD's that we can see, hence don't go against their wish. your's first preferance must be to keep your parents happy. you trust me if you obey your parents definitely you will succeed in your life
just forget about the love and all. concentrate on the problems that your parents are facing.
2006-12-12 14:28:02 · answer #4 · answered by sachinr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to ask the girl what she wants. afterall this is your and your girlfreinds decision. if she doesnt want to go against her parents decision then maybe you need to think again!
2006-12-12 14:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by A C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-12 23:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by sole_licker2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋