I am a 18 year old Black male and I often times feel really sexually frustrated and am always constantly masturbating but I live in a very rural white community and have my whole life and all my sexual fantasies are of pretty blondes, brunettes, and redheads. Thats all I see everyday. I feel kinda guilty because my cousin Tamika says I am an Uncle Tom Oreo Cookie. She says " Why do you masturbate to these white chicks you sellout ? ". I dont know quite what to say but when I am home in my bedroom, I just get naked and masturbate on my bed to the cheerleading team, volleyball girls, and any pretty caucasian girl in the school. Its just that they look so sexy and I get so horny looking at their cute little butts and nice sexy legs. I also feel like that I don't really have a chance with them in REAL life because they don't seem interested in dating outside their race. There always with the best looking white guys in our school. Sometimes, I just feel like this is easy for me to do.
2006-12-12 05:42:18 · 37 answers · asked by eastwood1870 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
That's completely understandable. When you're surrounded by something, you develop a taste for it. I've seen a lot of cute guys of all colors, but love white boys too. I think they're adorable. Don't let what your cousin says upset you. That's messed up on her part, racist even, just because you like the white girls. She seems to have race issues. Don't be ashamed. Vanilla just happens to be your flavor!!!!
Besides, interracial relationships are good because they break down berriers and misconceptions. And, mixing races is good for the gene pool. Every race seems to have its inherent health problems from people "sticking to their own kind." If you mix it up, people will be less susceptible to those problems than if they were full-blooded anything. Think about it: research has shown that caucasians are the least susceptible to lactose intolerance. If I, a Mexican/Native American have children with my caucasian bf, our kids will be able to handle lactose better than I do. Lucky!
2006-12-14 10:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by short 'n sweet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are allowed to have any fantasy you want. Feeling ashamed with what's on your mind is abnormal! And masturbation is OK. Do it anytime you feel like. If you feel insecure,it's because you are at an age when you have many questions and few answers,especially about sexuality.
2016-05-23 00:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like what you like, and there is no shame in that. I don't have a problem with interacial dating or fantasies people may have. I have a problem with your cousin calling you a "sell out" just because you're black and you seem to like white women. So what! It's not like you hate black people or hate being black. I'm black myself, and I am really attracted to Pakistani and Indian guys, and which a lot of black people including some of my family members think is weird. Be yourself bro, it's good to stand out anyway. I still love black people and other races regardless to the few ignorant people who make race an issue!
Do what you want, it's your life!
krazy Libra
2006-12-12 05:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A lot of things come down to respect. On the surface some people might say that you disrespect the women you fantasize over. Deeper down the disrespect might be for yourself. This is something a lot of people gloss over or laugh at but if you sit down and think it over...you will find the answer. One suggestion is to try not looking at the pictures. This is a habit which we all know is hard to break. Try to pull yourself away from this fantasy world. Reality is harder to deal with but in the long run you will be a better person. Believe me when I say I know what you are going through. But don't be too hard on yourself. None of us are perfect. Good friends can help.
2006-12-12 05:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by robert c 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Inter-racial couples are more common in other countries but the number of such couples are increasing in the United States. There is nothing wrong with your fantasies and nothing wrong with dating or marrying an Anglo. Indeed there are 'white' women who are only interested in 'black' men. Tell your cousin Tamika that this is the 21st Century.
2006-12-12 05:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by john e russo md facm faafp 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
no u shouldnt be ashamed. it is human nature to be attracted to others reguardless of ur race or gender. im sure everyone has had a sexual fantasy about someone that wasnt the exact same ethnicity of them but it doesnt make it wrong. u are who u are and that doesnt change. good luck with the girls and remember if someone doesnt like u because of ur race, theyre not worth it.
2006-12-12 05:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel ashamed. Many white men fantasize about such things with black women. They may go much farther than that. Your are not cheating your race, but merely wanting sexual fulfillment. That is not to be ashamed of. Each has there own desires and preferences. Just remember not to be too judgmental on yourself or others for their desires. You are only human and subject to human behavior.
2006-12-12 05:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mike A 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
wow....that is very different! I am not sure that I have ever heard of someone admitting to mastubating SO much! But I think that if that is the kinof girl that you like then find one that likes you back....don't worry about what someone else says. It's your life.
But if a white girl doesn't want to date you, don't take it personal...it's just a preference just like blonde hair or dark hair.
2006-12-12 05:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by TNL 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's your fantasy. Does it really matter to you what race the person is? If it does then you are probably letting someone with a slightly racist attitude affect your thinking.
Decide for yourself who you want to think about, be with and fantasize about. Your life, your choice.
2006-12-12 05:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by PK 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter if you like women or black or any color women of that nature. But masturbating to a picture is pretty sick man. But why does skin complexion even matter you should go after what you like.
2006-12-12 05:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by blodgettboy24 1 · 6⤊ 1⤋