I am a 18 year old Black male and I often times feel really sexually frustrated and am always constantly masturbating but I live in a very rural white community and have my whole life and all my sexual fantasies are of pretty blondes, brunettes, and redheads. Thats all I see everyday. I feel kinda guilty because my cousin Tamika says I am an Uncle Tom Oreo Cookie. She says " Why do you masturbate to these white chicks you sellout ? ". I dont know quite what to say but when I am home in my bedroom, I just get naked and masturbate on my bed to the cheerleading team, volleyball girls, and any pretty caucasian girl in the school. Its just that they look so sexy and I get so horny looking at their cute little butts and nice sexy legs. I also feel like that I don't really have a chance with them in REAL life because they don't seem interested in dating outside their race. There always with the best looking white guys in our school. Sometimes, I just feel like this is easy for me to do.
2006-12-12 05:40:29 · 6 answers · asked by donniesmello 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I know how you feel.
I am an older white female and only attracted to Black men and Latinos. The only ones who have persecuted me are my family, too. Others think its great that I am following my desires.
You cannot deny who you are nor who you are attracted to. It's something in you and it's okay.
For now they are just fantasies for you because you still haven't met the right young lady.
Stop worrying about it.
Your time will come. The right person will also be attracted to you if you are only patient. Know that God is with you.
2006-12-14 08:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by Cyndi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are allowed to have any fantasy you want. Feeling ashamed with what's on your mind is abnormal! And masturbation is OK. Do it anytime you feel like. If you feel insecure,it's because you are at an age when you have many questions and few answers,especially about sexuality.
2006-12-12 06:37:18 · answer #2 · answered by valentin79ro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without having to read all of this...if that is what you are attracted to, why does your race have to be a factor? We cannot help who we are attracted to and race should never be a deciding factor, although for many it is for so many reason.
If that is what you like, go for it. I wish you the best.
However, dont let your fantasies turn into something that you can serve time for. Do you understand what I am saying?
2006-12-12 06:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are feeling guilty at all. If you were, you wouldn't have been so graphic in your description. Actually I think you are quite enjoying yourself! So my advice to you is: get real! Get yourself a girlfriend, emphasis on the word FRIEND. No matter what color and what creed, but a real life person. Start living, you are not so young any more.
2006-12-12 07:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted to white girls like myself then, just ask them if they want to go out with you or something. I think you are being unreasonable to just sit on your bed naked and masturbate. When you can have the real thing. Just say something to the girls. But if they walk aroung with good looking guys then, i would assume that they are their boyfriends so dont ask them out. But you know. I f you wan them to cheat and they want to cheat then go ahead and do it with whoe ver you want. Just dont get aids or herpes and always wear condoms.
2006-12-12 10:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by rzexrcvubin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you shouldn't be ashamed! you don't have to like black girls because you are black. don't let your friends tell you any differently, ok? We are all different
2006-12-12 05:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by ipodlady231 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋