they will now have a combined income and they got married last week .we are going to court next week and wantyed to know if I can ask for the payments to be increased
2006-12-12 05:39:59 · 11 answers · asked by FDNYEMT 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Before anyone gets ideas that i am after him for the money that is not the question ....he only gives me 25 dollars a month because he takes false paystubs and his boss helps him do that since they pay him off the books and i am not greedya nd I do go to church for those who assume that I dont ...I dont want to make this an issue but i was in a car accident that ended my career as a EMT for the new york city fire department so i need the help all i asked was for him to get me the things the baby needed and nothing else not the money or anything but he told me to take him to court and i did so that is why i asked about that so please do not assume i am a greedy money hungry woman but i didnt make this baby alone and he was there until he got caught cheating on me with her
2006-12-12 11:29:34 · update #1
They will only go by him pay not hers because the child is between you and your ex.
2006-12-12 05:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by amber_myers16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, she is not obligated to pay strickly because she married your ex. However, regardless of what the law says, could you in good conscience ask her to pay child support for a child that is not her's. Not to say that she doesn't care or would not be willing to help, but that is not the point. The idea behind child support is not getting as much money as possible out of the other parent, it is about sharing responsibility for the life that the two of you created. I can certainly understand that you have gone through and may still be harboring heartache but you should not let it blind you from what is fair and right. Take care, Jack of Hearts
2006-12-12 06:11:14 · answer #2 · answered by johuckabee@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope she's not obligated to pay. So you have to have a lawyer on your behalf work with his lawyer to make sure that he isn't conveniently "not making money" anymore
To make sure that you do get paid, you can go to court to get the payments garnished from his paycheck , so that its to you prior to him depositing it into any bank account.
2006-12-12 05:43:25 · answer #3 · answered by arus.geo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Greedy slime get a life and a job, stop feeding off your ex
2006-12-12 07:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Ray D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can ask for increase in payments but its not the new wife's responsibility unless she adopts him (and that means giving up ur rights to the child)
2006-12-12 05:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! You can only get "his" wages, and not thier combined wages...
"She" didnt divorce you...Nor, should she pay for her husbands choice of "ex wives"...
You sound very money grabbing to want to suck the money out of the new wife...bitter too, I may add...
Attend Church and let JESUS CHRIST into your life! HE can teach you how to forgive as HE did for all of us, in all our sins...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-12-12 05:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by x 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no, your children are not her obligation.but in the same breath,if she is ever to sign the child support check you can consider it a gift for that same reason.
2006-12-12 05:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by rochell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Besides, isn't collecting money that you didn't earn from one person enough?
2006-12-12 05:47:43 · answer #8 · answered by hooper5446 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rhat your probrem? You not get enough out of poor man arready? No, his rife ron't have to pay, day aren't her chirdren, she not der rhen you two do da nasty to get dem. You get raughed out of court over dat. Be nice!
2006-12-12 05:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No.. they only equate Spouses income..
2006-12-12 05:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by Allen L 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋