I am 15 almost 16 and I am with an older man about 27 years old And I am having sex with him my parents called the cops on him and they sent me away to a special place for troubled teens and him to jail what do I do?
2006-12-12 05:33:09 · 23 answers · asked by BabyC 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
let it and him go.. I went through this when I was 14, only they didn't send me away. He was my boyfriend (age 20) but it was a secret for a year and we had sex once (my first).. my parents found out and he went to jail for 3 months until he was let out because my parents dropped it and there was no physical evidence to support the charge. I never saw him again. It will be better, trust me. But you have to let it go.
2006-12-12 05:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.Neville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find somebody your own age. If your just 16 and he's at least 27, than thats rape. Why would you even want to be with a man that much older than you. But the real question is, why would he want a child. I think that both of yall are wrong. Your parents did the rite thing by calling the cops, however its not just his fault because, you were also in the relationship too. Good luck at finding a guy your own age.
2006-12-12 06:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by shika_shay06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cooperate with your counselors and figure out why you went and had sex with a man when you are still an underage kid. There is some psychological reason why you did this. It's not normal for kids to be with adults that much older. Were you looking for a father figure, for instance? Take their help there. This man belongs in jail. He had sex with a child under the law. He knew this was wrong and inappropriate and should not have broken this law. It's meant to protect children who cannot make good decisions for themselves. If he gets out, he may do the same thing again with someone else. Please don't contact him again. In the meantime, you can find out when you can be released. Is there a relative where you can stay when you get out of there? If you mature and grow up, you can lead a good life when you get out of there. You might be stuck there for 2 years (until you are 18) if you don't cooperate and see what you have done.
2006-12-12 05:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a pedophile.. no 27 year old man should be sleeping with a 15 year old girl. He was almost as old as you are when you were BORN. Stop and think about why he was with you in the first place. Thats not a healthy relationship. Age differences mean less as you get older.. but at 15, you are still young and vulnerable, which he obviously preyed on.
2006-12-12 05:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are 15 have sex with a 27.
2006-12-12 05:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by keionta k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much you can do. He prob would've been charged with statutory rape (because you are so much younger than him; a minor), which means he will be in jail for along time and listed as a sex offender for the rest of his life.
If they didn't get him on the rape charges, he will at least be charged with contributing to the delinquency of a minor.
It doesn't matter if you have your parents permission or not. The law has specific ages at which you can legally consent, and if you are not at that age (usually 16), it is illegal regardless of whether your parents give permission or not.
2006-12-12 06:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by iloveeeyore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang how they find out but besides that what the reason you think that grown man wanted with you if your only 15 that means you have no job no money that man just played you i'm quite sure he had someone else on the side just using you to fullfill his sexually needs i use to hear the boys around my block talking about how they got this dumb young girl to do so crazy stuff they all where just pedifalas through but as far as what to do when you go back home finish school marry some rich 89 year old man lol but for real go to school and go to college you have plenty of time to have sex with older man once your done and you want have to worry about them getting put in jail for it
2006-12-12 06:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by the man the myth the answerer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only reason a 27 year old would have sex with a teenager is because: A- for some reason they cannot meet a girl their own age, B- you are young and impressionable and easily manipulated.
Guys don't date way younger girls out of compatability or love, they date them because it's easy for them to get their way with them, and they're naive.
You're being foolish.
I'm 24 and I couldn't imagine dating a 16 year old. I would feel pathetic.
2006-12-12 05:37:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take advantage of what that place is trying to teach you and forget about that guy he deserves to be in jail for being 27 and sleeping with a baby. Take the help others are offering you, you can only benefit from it. Besides he can't be that good of a guy if he was out looking for a 15 yr old girl to play house with. STAY AWAY FROM HIM AND GUYS LIKE HIM!!! THEY ARE TROUBLE.
2006-12-12 05:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by lovelittlelulu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You wait until you are legally allowed to date older men!
I'm sorry it happened the way that it did, it must be hard for you.... but that man was to old, he should have known better.....
The right guy will come around when you are ready! Live your life right now, your young you have a long way to go....
Having a baby right now won't help you..... so try to stay away fromhaving sex altogether for a while.... until you can take the responsibiliy.
Good luck!
2006-12-12 05:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by mrs. ruspee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋