and why? espeically after being togethor for 8 yrs !
2006-12-12 05:32:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i know he would like a bunch of chicks doing , him, but i will never permitt that kind of fantasys i mean i wish he had some other kind of fantasy besides that one!
2006-12-12 05:39:42 · update #1
Because some partners are a tad squeamish when hubby breaks out the Twister mat, Batman costume, a pair of handcuffs, a quart of Jim Beam, a small jar of marshmallow fluff, a ball gag, a can of Nair and an electric toothbrush.
Other partners call that collection "your average Sunday morning."
Short version: We're scared you'll think we're freaky. If you push the envelope a little, we will too. You can't go from 0 to 60 on this in a night, take time.
2006-12-12 05:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Certainly there are some males (as well as females) who are self conscious about sharing their fantasies with their partners. It is kind of sad that after this length of time that they are still feared of how their partner may react to what they are feeling and/or thinking way down deep inside them. Communicate is always number 1 in any relationship, and should be viewed as such in the privacy of ones bedroom as well. I would suggest that you sit down with your partner and ask them to explain what kind of fantasies they have and inform him that although you may not be able to fulfill them all that you will be open minded about what he is about to share with you. You may also try and give him examples of what you fantasize about to get the conversation started. Best of luck.
2006-12-12 13:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't share because their wives will not ever participate in the fantasy anyway, so why bother to expose yourself like that and risk getting called some kind of a pervert....
2006-12-12 13:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if they are about your girlfriends, your family,
or your Mother. Oh, guy- guy action to.
Maybe your Man doesn't think he has anything to
put into words. Give him some ideas. It may be that
he is very, very visual. "What he sees, is what he gets".
No need for fantasy.
2006-12-12 13:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he dont want to offend you. I know my husband tells me every fantasy he has, and I do the same.
2006-12-12 13:34:17 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people are shy from time to time. He may be afraid that you will look at him differently or he just may NOT have anything to share.
2006-12-12 13:36:11 · answer #6 · answered by SHERRI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine is getting smacked across the penis with a # 2 pencil !
2006-12-12 13:46:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you might think he is a freak. If your man tells you his fantasy is to have a orgy or threesome, or sex with someone else(not you) , would you see him in a different light?.
2006-12-12 13:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BEcause some of our fantasies embarass us.
2006-12-12 13:34:06 · answer #9 · answered by toff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM. I HAVE NEVER DONE THAT TO DATE. I DONT KNOW IF I EVER WILL. THERE NOT EVEN THAT OUTRAGOUS. AS A MATTER OF FACT THIER PRETTY TAME. I DONT KNOW WHY. MAYBE ITS OUT OF EMBARASSMENT. YEAH, THATS PROBABLY IT. EITHER THAT OR INSECURITY
IT WOULD BE NICE IF I COULD....
2006-12-12 13:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Steven Colbert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋