My "friend" from highschool looks down on me b/c of really bad mistakes that I made in the past. I stopped talking to her b/c she acts like she's better than me. Besides, she doesn't seem to like me sometimes. I feel very guilty for letting her go b/c she helped me a lot!
2006-12-12 05:27:23 · 16 answers · asked by Tina M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You shouldn't feel guilty. She is not being a very good friend if she looks down on you because of the mistakes you made in the past. Good friends love you no matter what mistakes you make. It sounds like you two were growing apart. I don't think you should feel guilty about it. You may be hurt because you lost a friend, but you never know who'll you meet and you may make a new friend who will accept whatever you did in the past.
2006-12-12 05:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was really your friend she would not of looked down on you for mistakes you made in your past. I have made alot of mistakes in my past but some of those mistakes made me who I am today. That is how people learn is from their mistakes. If she was acting like she was better than you then you don't need a friend like that. A true friend may not agree with the mistakes in your past but she will accept them and not judge you on them
2006-12-12 05:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should let it go cause 1st of all you said she look down on you if she was a so call friend she will look up and uderstand or be a pretty as you are beeing pretty just means you take good care of your self and that draws friends to be jealous everyone makes mistakes you gonna makes mistakes in the future too thats part of life cus noone is perfect it's nothing to be gulilty about life is tooo short you have to let that feeling go if you want to be her friend than makeup with her but if she dont accept it and want to be nasty than move on you have to realize girl friends or ez to find
2006-12-12 05:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you are not your past, what's done is done, all you can do is your future.. so stop feeling guilty for mistakes of the past, and go on with your life with the experience of those mistakes.. about your friend, i recommend confrontation, you gotta tell her that you've got to get through it and let things go, tell her that u appreciate it that she had helped you alot and you don't wanna let this friendship go...
good luck..
2006-12-12 05:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by NiMO gurL! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swallow your pride. Go to her and tell her that she really helped you a lot in the past, and that you want to continue to be friends. That you have growed up, and realize that she was a very good friend.
Good luck!
2006-12-12 05:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by HowdyThere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt is a poison, the only way you can remove guilt from your life, is by forgiving yourself and all others and your process will begin. So enjoy a guilt free life, if Yahweh can forgive you so can you. PEACE!
2006-12-12 05:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Yahshua F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is a process - get over whatever is bothering you.
It may partly hurt but true friendship is worth it.
Just be sure of yourself again - and don´t forget
where YOU helped or will help someone.
2006-12-12 05:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by rgarlik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we cant help u rid guilt!!! you can & only you!!! she looked down on you & didnt seem to always be for you huh? well then you were right to let her go.. trust me life goes on & if you will allow yourself to look at the bright side & pull urself 2gether then u will meet many more people & do many more things...
2006-12-12 05:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force a relationship on someone who doesn't want it. If you've tried talking to her to no avail then let it be. Maybe in time she'll try to reconnect but for now I'd step back.
2006-12-12 05:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was any type of friend she shouldnt look down on you, you have to learn and grow from your own mistakes. but then again , maybe you should have spoke to her explained your problem with her and try sorted out the problem. she's been a good friend to you and its something you should try and sort out between yourselves.
2006-12-12 05:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋