we make an effort to make our sex life better, do you?
2006-12-12 05:15:20 · 17 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes we do, i think it's comendable that u make an effort. i have two children under 5 and have to work full time, so i think sex should be once a year. He thinks once a day. It causes problems in our house
2006-12-12 05:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in most cases its the woman who wants more. I don't know why, but after being married for a few years the man's sex drive drops off. If you as married women or women who live with a man for a few years, they(women) all want more. After a while a man will do it just so they don't have to talk about it. They still love you, they just don't want to make love that often.
2006-12-12 13:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by harold 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband wants it as often as he can get it, and I'm not a very sexual person, so i'm never in the mood. It causes a lot of fights in our household. Men feel that if you don't want sex, then it automatically means you aren't attracted to them or they're not good in bed, etc. It hurts their ego. To make up for how little you have sex, try doing new positions or using toys.
2006-12-12 13:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by i_hate_subway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have no disagreements on how often we have sex. Why? Because we communicate about it all the time. If you communicate, there won't be any disagreements because having sex is about giving to each other, not taking and it's only enjoyable when it's a gift. Talk, talk, talk.. about everything.. it's all worth it.
2006-12-12 13:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by Peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have always enjoyed sex together and either one of us may
initiate it at any time and as often as desired and the other will respond enthusiastically and immediately. This has always been understood as part of a couples obligations...
2006-12-12 13:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No disagreement. Why would you want to have sex with your spouse if they weren't in the mood. Wouldn't you be missing something.
2006-12-12 13:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by convoiceofreason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband will feel rejected like its something personal if I am not in the mood or have a lot of crap to do. But we never fight about sex
2006-12-12 13:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by tjae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen when my man wants some pus** HE gets it. It's his I'm with him so why not. If he tells me give me some pus** I ask him how do you and where do you want it. Couples who disagree on sex better get it together.
2006-12-12 13:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I perform sex on command. If my fiancee wants/needs sex I give it to her. If I don't, she f**ks me anyhow. Just the way it is and I'm fine with it.
2006-12-12 14:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if she isnt in the mood then itll make it that much better next time
2006-12-12 13:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by T-NutZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋