My cousin is married and she is like 7 years older than me, she has 2 kids and everything. Since we were little we used to mess around (nothin serious at the time). Now that we are adults we ended up fulfilling what I was wishing for in a long time. WOW! Just amazing. I think we both feel the same way, but how can I establish a relationship with her when she got married already and has her life. I wish I could’ve told her a long time ago. We fooled around for a while, but now it seems she doesn’t wants to anymore. I mess around with LOTS of girls (my social life is not a problem) LOL, but nothing can ever be like being with my cousin. I think I love her to a point that it’s destroying my heart. If it’s not her, then nobody will be in my heart ever. I will still mess around (I have my needs,,too!). But I wanna be in love!
2006-12-12 05:07:27 · 19 answers · asked by Eternal_Lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In addition, just to let anybody know that I am not a hillbillie or whatever your prejudice minds might think.
This things happened more than you can realize, some people grow out of it - other just fall in love.
I want smart answers, so don't be too quick in judging me or anybody. Some people have mentioned the word
incest, (wow!) and I am talking about 2 consenting adults, so if you don't know what to say, then, don't even bother
leaving an answer. Incest it's hardly proveable in court, so, this is just a lame law (like a bunch of other American laws).
Also, I am not just a dump ****. I have studied law, business, computers, sociology, etc. I am just a regular dude looking
for some closure.
This person that I am mentioning here has passed away,, so this might imply that our love wasn't meant to be right now. But maybe it can be
in an eternal life. Who really knows ...? {by what I see neither of yous' dont know anything, just criticize and ridiculize me}
2006-12-13 03:52:00 · update #1
That's your cousin, which means you are engaging in incest. Not only that, but she's an adulterer who cheated on her husband with you. Stay away and try to find girls not in your family tree.
2006-12-12 05:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are both happy who cares. Be happy with each other. I'm sorry though that you can no longer go forward - it's a shame that neither of you managed to show each other how much you cared before she got married.
My heart, mind and soul says, it doesn't matter if you are cousins, I draw the line at parents, brothers and sisters, neices and nephews etc.
I hope you can move on now knowing that you have loved and she has loved you. Keep her in your heart and she will never be far from your side.
2006-12-13 23:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by Curious39 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all....gross! You do not fool around with relatives! Yuk!!! plus, she has moved on and has a life. You need to do the same! Don't expect to fall in love so soon...give it time! Love will strike when you least expect it. Maybe you need to talk to someone like a therapist and unveil your problem to them. It's not normal to be in "special" relationship with your cousin. It wasn't cool when Jerry Lee Lewis did it back then and it's not cool or accepted to do that now. Please find something else to do!
2006-12-12 05:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My first time was with a male cousin who was 17 when I was 14. I thought it was love, but it obviously was not. We had fun for a couple of years, orally, but then it ended. Just as well.
2006-12-12 08:02:52 · answer #4 · answered by marleemcgr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give this guy a break! C'mon everybody's got a cousin that's totally HOT! Well, I think you just leave it at that. You had some fun and that's that. This is a sticky situation that not only involves her family but your immediate family as well. Just keep this as your dirty little secret and nothing more. Move on.
2006-12-12 05:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cousin or not, she's married - that's the real issue here. If she wants to be with you, she needs to leave her husband.
If the husband finds out about it, he could sue her for everything - including her children - in the divorce. If you truly care for her, you won't put her in this situation.
2006-12-12 05:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by skatoolaki 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok if u have seen "mean girls" and remember when karen wanted to make out with her cousin and gretchin said NO thats wrong she wasnt kidding, and if u wanna see what your kids will look like watch wrong turn, they got some inbreed kids, your sick!
2006-12-12 05:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by ~*cRaCkNeSs*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE...Go get fixed.
We don't need any more of your DNA in our gene pool.
You have actually found something worse than messing with a cousin...she's a MARRIED cousin.
2006-12-12 05:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you stupid thats ya cousin don't you know that thats insest and the baby will come out deformed and anyways if you do that tha's really sorry to say sweetie mesed up allot sorather be a man hoe thatn ya cousin
2006-12-12 05:12:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lord help you!!!! does the word INCEST mean anything at all in your vocabulary?
2006-12-12 05:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋