I know her more that I know him but we're not best friends. He loves her. He needs to know!
2006-12-12 05:03:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell him about that dont be fright
2006-12-12 05:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does he need to know?
You don't have to agree with her actions, but all you can do is tell her that you feel that she should talk to him about it.
It has always been my opinion that honesty is not always the best policy. If it happened once and won't happen again, why make someone else hurt jsut to clear your own conscience? Guilt is punishment; you don't need to go out of your way to hurt others to make yourself feel better.
If she chooses to tell him, then it's up to him to forgive her. Keep out of thier lives!
2006-12-12 05:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by ShavenLlama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repeat after me: "I will not interfere in anyone else's love life."
The traditional role of friends of the philanderee (I made up that word but it rocks, doesn't it?) is to stay quiet and gaze mournfully at him/her. Your sole authorized response is "it's really not my place to say anything; I'm sorry."
If you disapprove so much of her conduct in this affair, I would suggest distancing yourself from her acquaintance. If anyone asks why, simply say "that's between me and her."
Sometimes the best action is inaction. Dignified silence rocks.
2006-12-12 05:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her tell her that she needs to be the one to comfront him and come out with what she has been doing. Ands if she says she doesnt want to maybe try threating to tell him yourself and see what she says
2006-12-12 05:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by ReRe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 100% positive? Do you have proof? Unless you can back up the allegation, don't say anything.
Be prepared for a nasty confirmation if you do tell him. "She" will not be too pleased if he dumps her based on your allegations.
2006-12-12 05:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by HowdyThere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to just be honest and talk to him in person. Tell him I'm sorry and you didnt want to be the one to tell him, but he deserves to know. Then tell him.
But be convincing, if he doesnt believe you, it was pointless.
2006-12-12 05:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by U Luv It 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont butt in on them just let things go and they will find out sooner or later.
2006-12-12 05:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business. It will come out eventually. If you butt in they will both hate you.
2006-12-12 05:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Entice him into your bedroom, then in a tender moment, let him know ....but make sure you've already come ...
2006-12-12 05:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by blueyedimpledguy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey man everybody deserves to know
2006-12-12 05:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by Patrick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him because the longer you wait the more medded up things will be
2006-12-12 05:07:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋