if yes, what are some of things you have mention to your significant other, you would like to try to change out of that same routine ?
2006-12-12 05:01:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do something to spice it up and ask them to be creative and come up with some things too.
Simple things can spice things up, like when my ex was working outside on a night duty in the military in wintertime. I knew he would be cold when he got home, so a drew a nice hot bubble bath.....
I was wearing a bath robe..... and after he got in, I stepped into the bathroom and dropped the bath robe and put my naked little self in the tub with him.
Well.... nature takes its course from there.
Once, I got someone to keep the kids for the weekend.... and told him he wa a prisoner in the house for the weekend. We spent the whole weekend.... well.... you know. We had food delivered when we got hungry and just focussed on playing with each other.
Anyway..... you don't need much but an imagination to spice things up. If you get some fancy ice-cream Bon Bons to put next to the bed in a fancy dish and feed them to him slowly, and sensually..... I guarantee that most of them will be left to melt in the dish!
Different clothing, positions, tasty foods on the body, etc. can make each time a little different.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-12 05:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be spontaneous and start stopping at a restaurant washroom n take a break or a forest or park in your area that u know no one will be at or rent some videos to learn more positions or some books .Take a stripping class together and learn how to strip for each other.Play out one or a fantasy of each others.There r also hotels around that will accommodate to fantasy's some have human jolly jumpers to whips and chains to roses all over and on the bed and mirror ceilings etc.Use you imagination and have fun doing it.Some books and videos are good for learning where pin points are the specific spots that can turn u on more then u would ever know and most people unless they get these books or videos don't know about them.Anyway good luck n have fun
2006-12-12 05:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have never had a routine! sometimes it is hot and fast, sometimes it is slow and tender, sometimes it is a quickie, it all depends on where when and how much time we have!
If you just make love at night in the bed in the same position then you have a routine. CHANGE IT every room in the house is appropriate for sex! Anytime of the day or night is appropriate for sex! All positions are appropriate and use more than one each time! Oral sex is to be given and received and is very appropriate!
ENJOY EACH OTHER
2006-12-12 05:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bryan, Pardon my intrusion, I know you're addressing history majors, and I was just a business management major.BUT, here's a thought. How about museum curator or something along those lines. I would think with you're background it could be a natural progression because you would already have knowledge of ancient cultures and artifacts.In answer to you're question, sure why wouldn't someone be looked upon as successful with a history major. History encompasses other fields of study.Just my two cents, cheers.
2016-05-23 00:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried asking your significant other if there is anything different they like, or if there is something you can try? Most people would be open to it. The important part is to be positive, and patient. If you let on you are bugged by it at all, you will offend your partner and they will withdraw from you emotionally.
2006-12-12 05:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes; just mess around more. and try new things.
even better, mention to them what you would like.
take charge, do something DIFFERENT. and plus, foreplay is a must and it will help if it's in a different place then the same old bedroom / house act. try outside! just don't get caught =]
2006-12-12 06:25:13 · answer #6 · answered by idontneedyoux3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different places, positions, accesories.
We do different hotels from time to time, like a weekend getaway. Balconies, living room, stairs, deck, etc. Positions is self explanatory. Accesories try going to a couples pleasure party. Get your drink on, see new toys and go home and have at it.
2006-12-12 05:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We try public places without getting caught. Role playing. Discussing fantasies and the possibility of which ones we are willing to fulfill. Fruit in the bed. Etc...
2006-12-12 05:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are books out there to help. Go to any book store and get a relationship book, they will spice this up for you. Also try and see if you can not book a unisex "fun" party, they are fun and interesting that makes you both get into.
2006-12-12 05:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by odd622 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I try to add a little bit more in such as a massage or toys
2006-12-12 05:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋