should i be scared lost my lil boy @ 2 months and it been a year and i found out the am 2 months and 1 weeks should i b scared???
2006-12-12 04:48:08 · 21 answers · asked by locamami 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
what???!!!
2006-12-12 04:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Patty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I assume you meant your lost your son at two months gestation (as opposed to that he was born alive and passed away at two months old). Either way, I am very sorry for your loss. It is totally normal to be apprehensive in ANY pregnancy, but especially in a pregnancy after a loss. In my first pregnancy, my son was born still at 26 weeks gestation and in every subsequent pregnancy, I was pretty much a nervous wreck.
If you need support, please check out www.nationalshareoffice.com
They have a wonderful message board for pregnancies after a loss.
2006-12-12 12:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by Hilary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused was the baby 2 months old or 2 months pregnant.
If you were 2 months pregnant how did you know it was a boy.
Babies can't be sexed until around week 12
2006-12-12 12:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No don't be scared. Most families do not loose more than one child. Relax and enjoy your pregnancy. Stress is not good for the baby. Congrats!
2006-12-12 12:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly natural to be scared after what you've been through, but just do your best to keep as calm as possible and try not to let your fear spoil the excitement.
Congratulations!
2006-12-12 12:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Just take it one week at a time. I got pregnant right after I miscarried my first pregnancy and now have a beautiful, healthy little girl.
2006-12-12 12:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by LadyJag 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldnt be. Its natural to be aprehensive, but having fear over something you cannot control only causes stress which increases your chance of miscarriage.
You only have 3 weeks until you break that first trimester threshold, and your chance of miscarriage drops dramatically.
Just live normal, stay relaxed, and most of all, enjoy your pregnancy.
2006-12-12 12:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No just because you had one miscarriage definitely doesn't mean you will have another one just relax there could have been millions of reasons why you lost your first and its very unlikely to happen again.
2006-12-12 13:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there
sorry for your loss, but you should try and look at this pregnancy in a positive way and enjoy it otherwise you will regret this phase as it helps you to bond with the baby before it is born.
2006-12-12 12:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by SAMANTHA F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just make sure you dont miss your appointments. the first 3 months are most important because your baby is developing...the rest of the time its just getting fat and taller..lol. take all your prenatals and iron and folic acid pills they give you. get your ultrasounds so they can see if there are problems...otherwise i think you're fine :)
love jen.
2006-12-12 12:52:11 · answer #10 · answered by Jennie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scared it wasnt your fault you lost your little boy
this baby has lived longer than your last one
when he grows up tell him about his brother and how special he is that he grew up
good luck
2006-12-12 12:50:54 · answer #11 · answered by college stud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋