2006-12-12 04:36:13 · 27 answers · asked by soldier 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once trust is lost it is hard to regain. You have to want to and you have to believe that your spouse is really apologetic and won't repeat the offense. Hopefully a marriage doesn't end from one mistake. Talk about the issue, get it out and forgive it. That's the first step to healing.
Good Luck!
2006-12-12 04:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by blackcaligirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible because you two share a past and a present and have been through good times and bad times. If your spouse has shown signs that he/she can be trusted again then trust him or her at least a little bit at a time.
Think of it this way, if it had been you losing the trust, wouldn't you show signs that you can be trusted once again and want your spouse to trust you?
2006-12-12 04:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what your spouse has done and how many times??? Did you let your spouse off easy? Is this the first time? How long are you together? Are you married? What are your financial arrangements? Are there children involved? My opinion is "Once a cheater, always a cheater". I was married to one for over 20 years. He married again and cheated on her too. I think it's a hard habit to break.
2006-12-12 04:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Rose M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your spouse cheated on you the answer is no... you can pretend that you trust your spouse all you want but it will ALWAYS be at the back of your mind
2006-12-12 04:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what happened that you started not trusting your spouse. This is very hard to answer with no more details.
2006-12-12 04:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband after 7 years, continues to be an analogous way that your husband was. when I had our daughter, I gained 30 lbs, she is 7 months previous and that i lost 15 so a ways and im working annoying dropping the different 15 yet he's often calling me a fat *** and that i embarrass him and suggestions you, I purely weigh a hundred and sixty. Tells me that im grotesque and that no guy will ever opt for me/ he's incredibly abusive. I don’t and cant believe him. under no circumstances will. All I do is stress over him because of the fact he's often out for weeks at a time and that i under no circumstances see him. I even have asked him for a divorce yet he wont provide me one. Irregardless, we as women folk as eye-catching, we gave those adult men little ones and with a view to enhance them ideal, we would desire to be ideal interior of ourselves and in the experience that your husbadn reasons you greater grief then happiness, then leave him.... Do whats ultimate to your little ones...don’t enable them to think of that that style of habit is okay seeing it incredibly is nt.
2016-10-05 05:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by catherine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is possible depending on how much u really care for that person after what he/she has done but it would take some time and awkwardness for u to get that trust back
2006-12-12 04:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ikemefuna s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what broke the initial trust, overall circumstances, and if it's happened more than once. Can you give some more information?
2006-12-12 04:39:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation, on what happened, cheating possibly it could take a lot of time, i am still coping of 3 yrs of it. nope, still cant trust.
2006-12-12 04:38:46 · answer #9 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more specific. What is it that your spouse did? Did he wear your dresses when you were visiting your mother? Did he leave the toilet seat up and you fell in when you tried to use the bathroom one night in the dark? Did he eat the last bon bon? Did he kiss your sister? What exactly did he do?
2006-12-12 04:41:28 · answer #10 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋