I am in my early 20's. everytime i get a hj from my gf, i ejaculate anywhre between 1 minute to 5 minutes (over or under boxers). When she gives me a bj (I am wearing a condom), I may not even ejaculate at all, and she will have to finish me off with a handjob, etc.
Is this normal?
2006-12-12 04:29:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
WOW! My man takes forever and it is so annoying!
2006-12-12 04:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well luv, I guess it is normal, mostly due to the fact that your other non-HJ activities use a rubber (condom). Unfortunatly, as much as condoms are important and a necessity in today's world, they (the condoms) still decrease the male's sensitivity.... Which is why you probably have trouble reaching orgasm wearing one, wheras without a condom and being given a HJ, you reach climax easier.
So I would say it is normal, even though for most males, it is usually the opposite which occurs (meaning quick to climax during a BJ but it takes forever with an HJ). Maybe you are just one of those rare and lucky guys who gets easilly turned on by a HJ, of maybe your GF (GirlFriend) is just exceptionally good with her HJ technique... I'm sure my hubby would like to inquire more about this!
2006-12-12 05:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by ButtahChick (ButterChick) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's performing oral sex on you with a condom and not able to make you ejaculate it could be that your penis is no longer senstive to her mouth plus the condom on it, although good for safe sex, it could be aiding your penis in not ejaculating.
Condoms do take away a little of the pleasure. But it also could be because you are used to having a hj that it's a little psychological for you. Or it could be you are doing it too much and like I said before, your penis is becoming desensitized from too much masturbation.
2006-12-12 04:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, this is completely normal. When i get a hj or bj from my gf, i ejaculate in like 1-5 min. too.
2006-12-13 09:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have less sensitivity with a condom on. Ask her to give you oral stimulation without the condom (unless you have HIV or an STD, obviously) and use her hand grip motion at the base of the penis.
BTW she can't get pregnant through oral, so why the condom.
Also, you have preferences. Stimulation by hand isn't always the same as other stimulation.
2006-12-12 05:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ejaculation in 1 to 5 minutes is not unusual if you are making no effort to prolong it. Maybe there are are emotional issues involved in the BJ...the condom does cut down on the pleasure...immensely.
2006-12-12 04:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh... we can no longer something, unfortunately! in fact, the low means to have sexual intercourses lasting longer is the "petite mal" of the century. The numbers of barren people and circumstances of untimely ejaculations by no potential have been in so severe style as interior the final years. progression an progression for sure carry those outcomes too. even with as quickly as there replaced into lack of understanding and inhibition, intercourse had to be a lovable time of delight and so, different than for youthful men, men have been able to accomplish long sexual intercourses or extra acts consecutively. women often noted "long nighttime of pastime" and many times the main area of the lads, additionally if uninhibited, could chuffed frigid women even. presently merely the minority and a few previous guy is able to have act longer than 10-15 min. as properly it gets genetic aspects too as like as my long overall performance enable me understand.
2016-12-30 07:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may I suggest that if shes just afraid of you getting off in her mouth that you assure her you'll pull out before you come and let her finish with a hand job? that way you can ditch the condom and youll have way more fun. Just relax and enjoy it.
2006-12-12 11:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way, I guess I'm not very sensitive, I like a combination handjob/bIowjob the best lol
2006-12-12 04:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that a bj takes longer..?...my boyfriend takes like 15 min..too long for me to be doing that..so i finish with a hj...i can't believe i am saying this in internet,,
2006-12-12 04:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yeah. it's normal. it just means she's better with her hands than her mouth. also... the condom while getting bj... odd. would be like trying to eat a twinkie through the wrapper. but, as they say, to each his own!!
2006-12-12 04:32:17 · answer #11 · answered by wrldzgr8stdad 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋