I don't like going to school much anymore I hate my teacher what should I do?The people at my school are so judgemental they don't even try making friends with you they just stick with there own crew.
2006-12-12 04:19:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
First of all Hate is such a strong word. Be yourself don't change for other people. Don't worry you will have friends, just keep your head up and don't worry about what other people think. sometime they wish they were in your shoes, but don't know how to do it.
2006-12-12 04:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by Nicole S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you hate about your teacher? Is it something that could be fixed? Do you just hate her because everyone else does?
I had a teacher everyone hated but I enjoyed her. She was tough yes and yes there was a lot of homework but in the end I came out on top because of it. I made sure to take her advanced class the following year.
Is a new school and option?
Friends are great but they are not the be all and end all of school either, plus if you are new to say middleschool or a new highschool you have to give it time. I have had it both ways and in the end your grades are all that matter. I watched some of the most popular kids flunk out and become nobodies in the real word. Sure they had friends in highschool but what do they have now?
The right people will come along it isn't the number of friend you have either it is the true friends whether it be 1 or 2 that will matter as well.
talk to your school counselor, your parents, even your teachers maybe there is something to help you out to make things better.
2006-12-12 12:29:11 · answer #2 · answered by Eq2Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, ignore everybody who tells you that school days are the best days of your life. That only applies if the rest of your life is completely rubbish. I totally understand how you feel. I hated school, I left 24 years ago and I still have nightmares about it. I wish I could give you some brilliant method of dealing with it but I never discovered one. Just remember this, it doesn't last forever, you will survive, and please please, if things get bad, talk about it, to your parents, a counsellor, somebody.
If it helps you feel better. I went back to a school reunion a few years ago and all the people who'd made my life's miserable seemed to be living pretty ordinary mundane lives. Mine is amazing, so that was pretty cool. Not that I boasted too much, but when I showed off the picture of my extremely attractive and intellegent children I was careful to explain that the Spanish villa in the background wasn't mine, mine was the much smaller one next door.
all the best, and have a good christmas. You never know, santa might bring your class mates a personality transplant.
2006-12-12 16:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,high school is one huge learning experience.It is preparing you for the real world,once you get out there you wont be in this little bubble.It will be extremely hard at times,but you must realise that not everyone is going to like you.Also,there are those who wont speak,you have to take that extra step.If you want friends,you must speak to them as well.Dont wait for them to come to you.If you sit and wait and dont speak up,you may miss out on some of the best years of your life.Stand up,stand strong and proud of yourself.Worry not what others think,because they are not who matter.This whole experience will make you stronger in the long run.Enjoy it while its here because it wont come back.You will look back once your older and realise that this time was the most carefree time in your life,even if it doesnt seem so right now.Enjoy it hun,you will be glad you did.Good luck and have a good day.
2006-12-12 12:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your school Counselor. They can help you with your problem with your teacher.
Find a crew. Join something; a club, a team, a committee. Take small steps too.... nod and smile at people you see all the time and think you might like. Say a quick hi when noise and space allow.
Try to think and remember that most other teenagers feel as awkward and shy as you do. (Really!)
2006-12-12 15:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by Casey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept that school is a must. Teachers are task masters and you should understand that they want to teach you and you are in learning mode. Get a little positive and friends too shall like you.At least to start with you start being non judgemental and accept schoolmates as they are; a bit more loving than they are towards you. I am hopeful that things shall turn around for you sooner than expected.
2006-12-12 12:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Meenakshi R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about that teacher u do ur duty correctly and don't let to pinpoint u by that teacher. If not u can change ur school, but what is the gurantee that u won't come across as same teacher as u come acroos now.
2006-12-12 12:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by poornima loganathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to adolescents. Just try to stay on your teacher's good side. As for making friends.....try to be friends with an "out cast" like yourself. They usually make the best friends, or try to become friends with only 1 of the "popular" kids. Once your friends with one the rest will accept you. Though, I have found over the years, the popular kids aren't always as great as they seem. It's always better to be your own person.
2006-12-12 12:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by purpledragonflyjrh 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you hate your teacher? I know you desire to fit in and be a part of the crowd and make friends. But it's not all that it seems to be. I'v ebeen on both sides of the fence. But, there's one friend that will stick closer than any other friend and He won't judge or make fun of you but Love you unconditional. He will always be there for you faithfully. His name is Jesus, ask Him to come into your heart to change you.
2006-12-12 12:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by unknown 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Live it out. Try to make friends, they make it a lot more fun. Study, get good grades, do your homework, school with be a lot more pleasureful...I guess. I'm sick of it too though. And as for your teacher, try switching teachers. Along with a new teacher comes new kids. Whether you already know thhem or not. Try making friends out of them. =D
2006-12-12 12:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by La Dee da 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋