2006-12-12 03:24:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
only you know for sure, sweetie.
That is a very tough question.
I would say yes he will.. but my best friend's husband cheated on her once.. and they dealt with it openly and honestly and were both committed to working it out. They went to counseling.. and I would consider it a "super glue' marriage. It is stronger where it was broken that it was before it was damaged.
They have a very very good relationship.
My marriage on the other hand, did not withstand his infidelity. He was NOT willing to go to counseling or to work on our marriage. He just wanted out and used the affairs to kind of make me do it.. talk about the ultimate passive agressive. :)
There are no gurantees. Only you know if you are willing to work on it, and if he is committed. Only you know if you are willing and able to take that chance.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-12 03:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if he truly regretted doing it the first time and really wants to invest in his wife instead of other women. However, get counseling immediately. Don't hesitate. One thing about the internet, for example, is that you meet so many people with similar interests. Sometimes those interests begin to grow and eventually your investing more time with a person online than you are in the real world. Of course, the more you invest the more you become attached and feelings of "love" even bubble up.
Wives...cut the head off that snake quick! If your man is spending more time on the computer or cell phone texting mysterious "friends" than he is with you then that is a problem. Whether he likes it or not, cut is @ss off from the chat rooms, the text, and the porn! The more he invests in other women and yes even the ones he says is "just a cool friend", the more likely he is to cheat. Once that interest bubbles up in him, given the opportunity to cheat he probably will.
This isn't just a "man" problem either. So, don't even try the "men are all the same", "men are so shallow" jargon. Women are doing the same exact things. Getting trapped in adulterous relationships online and then eventually meeting the person and it aint for coffee. Happens online, at work, wherever. Where there is an interest with deep investments, there will be a pay out. However, this investment most always ends in bankruptcy. DON'T CHEAT!
2006-12-12 11:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Goober W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. If he had a one night stand while drunk (or mad at you) he may not do it again. However, if he has the habit of trying to shag everything with a pulse, you can beat he will probably do it again.
P.S: By the way, if he cheated on a girl to be with you (before marriage), then you already knew he was a cheater and have no right to complain.
2006-12-12 11:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if they not happy with there spouse, they will cheat again, unless they find what they missing out in marriage. mostly that is love caring and commutation.
2006-12-12 11:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by sska 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on the situation and the spouse. look at his character, if the situation looks like it could have been a isolated incident then probably not, but unfortunately most cases lean toward the cheater committing the same offense.
2006-12-12 11:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he will. It gets easier for him after the first time. The first time of being found out is worst for him and her. She will be deeply pained and disappointed and she will scream and cry. He will be most apologetic and might even cry with her. After this hurdle is crossed, she won't be so deeply pained and the crying becomes anger which he can handle better. It gets easier each time. Eventually they will collaborate to hide it from their family and friends. They become partners in his cheating.
2006-12-12 11:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Cheating is a behavioral thing with the man, it has nothing to do with you. If he did it once he will do it again most likely.
2006-12-12 11:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by Pashta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is likely that he/she will. You should both begin counseling services. I would suggest that if you are not involved already in a BIBLE STUDY that you find a nearby Church to begin doing so. Make sure that your spouse is also involved in this. GOD has a powerful force in a marriage. HE can make all of the difference in this WORLD!! Have a GrEaT HoLiDaY!!
Eds
2006-12-12 11:30:27 · answer #8 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2006-12-12 11:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S NOT NESSESSARY, BUT THE POSSIBILITY IS BIGGER. BY CHEATING ON YOUR SPOUSE, YOU CROSS A BORDER IN THE MARRIAGE THAT SHOULD NEVER BE CROSSED! YOU BETRAY THAT PERSON'S TRUST. AND YOU KNOW, ONCE A LINE IS CROSSED, IT'S EASIER TO BE CROSSED AGAIN. BUT IT'S NOT THE SAME FOR EVERYBODY. IT COULD REALLY HAPPEN JUST ONCE, BUT EVEN ONCE IS TOO MUCH!
2006-12-12 11:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Stella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋