2006-12-12 03:11:56 · 24 answers · asked by smi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you don't have children together, you might seriously consider simply moving on. You aren't a mere nothing to be thrown away and then retrieved at will!
If you do have children with this man, you must consider the effect of divorce on them. If reuniting with their father would make their lives happier and more stable, then doing so may be worth the effort.
2006-12-12 03:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by James and Cynthia B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that all depends on several factors- was he a good husband? Was he faithful? Did he/does he work? Are there kids involved? Why did the relationship end and can it be repaired and be healthy?
If you're asking us instead of asking your own heart and mind, you probably aren't all that excited about a reconciliation. I'd consider it long and hard and not make any rash decision either way.
Best of luck!
2006-12-12 11:15:25 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
instead, GET ANGRY! Why did he left??? What did he do a whole year without you! Not very well out there, eh??? Well, lets go back to darling wife until something else shows up. Do not trust him. Yet, if his coming back gives you economical or other (realistic) security, take the chance. But be prepared for the next time he goes away.
2006-12-12 11:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by Alice in Wonderbra 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is from experience. My EX-HUSBAND left me and a took him back. Hence the word EX!! I have since been happily married for the past 6 years with 2 beautiful children!
2006-12-12 11:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by debster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. It never works the second time around. He obviously left you for his own personal reasons the first time and it probably had something to do with a woman. Don't play his game because he probably was left by the woman and only coming back to you because you are comfortable to him. Been there.
2006-12-12 11:24:50 · answer #5 · answered by Andrea D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After one year, why would you be excited?
He left you and that had to be very difficult for you.
You had to put your life back together and deal with the pain.
How could you even begin to trust him after what he did.
You should be excited to tell him you are happy now and have moved on and no thanks.
Dont get caught up in his trap again.
Your smarter than that now.
2006-12-12 11:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. He left you for a reason. If it took him a year to figure out he wants to be with someone he vowed to spend every day for the rest of his life with, then there's some reason other than love to want to be with you. Been there, done that, you're just going to get hurt.
2006-12-12 11:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jennalove311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU WANT HIM BACK? WOULD YOU BE ABLE TO FORGIVE HIM THAT HE LEFT YOU A YEAR AGO? THE HUMAN MIND HAS THE SPECIAL ABILITY TO REMEMBER ONLY THE GOOD THINGS AND TO ISOLATE SOMEWHERE ON THE BACK OF YOUR MEMORY THE BAD THINGS AND THE PROBLEMS. THINK WERY WELL ABOUT THE THINGS THAT WERE THE PROBLEMS A YEAR AGO WHEN HE LEFT. AND WHY WOULDN'T HE JUST LEAVE AGAIN THE NEXT TIME THINGS GET DIFFICULT OR ANOTHER WOMAN APPEARS?!
2006-12-12 11:16:42 · answer #8 · answered by Stella 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends, Find out his reasons?
Does he want you back because he is finding out that No woman wants him now, and your his only last hope? If thats the case, then no, you shouldnt let him come back! Because he may do it again
Did he leave because of a good reason? Well then yeah, consider.
But if he cheated on you, dont let him back into your life.
2006-12-12 11:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excited about what ? That it took him 365 days to come to that conclusion ? Call me crazy but I would want him to come back the very next day.
2006-12-12 11:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋