ok heres the deal i really like this one guy but he acts like he doesnt care. then there is this other guy who is just amazing and he shows it but my friends wont let it happen i dont know why they say he is a player but i like him. then there is this other guy i dont know him but my friends are trying to hook me up with him and they say that he is nice..i really like the top two please tell me what to do .. my stomach feals really weird when i know i have to face them please help..
2006-12-12 02:48:10 · 18 answers · asked by drummerzrhot 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow! Player man does know how to use his words to make you feel so awesome inside, but has motive. First guy, seems like a waste of your time girl. The hook-up guy might have the most potential. But, remember, if its not there after ya know him, move along. Just because your friends might think he is the greatest doesn't mean he is what you really want. Start listening to youself girlfriend.
2006-12-12 02:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with what your friends are trying to tell you. If they say he's a player he probably is! Be careful because those guys can seem really great for awhile, but once he's bored with you, he'll move on to the next victim. Good Luck!
2006-12-12 02:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Amanda♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah I feel a lot like that and I am in college. There is one guy I am crazy over who acts like he just dont care. I still try to get him to notice me and stuff cause I aint about to give up.
If you like the player, you could give him a chance and forget what your friends think cause they are not always right.
Just dont let your friends hook you up with someone they like, you should try to get the ones you like and not date someone for your friends
2006-12-12 02:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask casual and get to know them more and dont be afraid to ask a million and one questions if the guy gets ignored he is not worth it and the guy who acts like he doesn';t care probaly doesn';t so just avoid him.any other help pleaseemail me at dragonpower42@yahoo.com
2006-12-12 02:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go with whatever your gut says. if it says go with the "player" then so be it just take your time and get to know him. your only in high school you have a lot of time left for boys.
2006-12-12 02:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by christie. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way 2 come out of this dilemma is you concerntrate on other things like ur hobbies after a short period ask yourself who is right 4 u
thats it yaar !!!!
2006-12-12 02:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by the true male 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he acts like he doesn't like you give it up. Listen to your friends and take their advice. Just go with what you think.
2006-12-12 03:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Cassie G <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whichever you choose, remember that you'll be the one going out with him, not your friends. So while your friends may be able to offer advice, you can't allow them to make your decisions.
2006-12-12 02:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dorian V. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
choose the non player
2006-12-12 03:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jillary von Hämsterviel™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm....follow your heart you must,
your friends don't matter in the end your the one dating the guy not them. besides they are probley keeping you away from the other guys so they can date them.
2006-12-12 02:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by Aug the Conqueror 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋