I went off on a guy for teasing a special person and I dont go for it now I feel bad inside. Does that make me a bad person?
2006-12-12 02:38:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Maybe "going off" on someone isn't the best tactic, but you were 100% right in your passionate feelings to defend the other person. I would brainstorm about the best way to say something that will defend the person being teased without losing control of your emotions so that if it happens again you will be ready.
You are NOT a bad person - it was noble of you to come to his/her help when that coward started picking on him/her. Good for you!
2006-12-12 02:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anne C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by "special person", but if someone is teasing someone else in a malicious way than yeah, by all means tell them off!
You feel bad for going off on this dude for hurting someone else's feelings? Nope, you're not a bad person...in fact I'd say you're a startlingly decent fella! If you want, it would not be amiss to take your guy friend aside and say, "Listen, I'm sorry I went off the other day, but you teasing that person was really ticking me off." If he's cool he'll definitely respect your convictions. If not, he's a bully and a jerk who doesn't deserve a friend like you.
2006-12-12 16:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by eXie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You did the right thing the person deserved a butt chewing. Dont feel bad the other person was in the wrong not you.
2006-12-12 10:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right to speak up. Too many people stay on the safe side and say nothing. At least you had the balls to set the person straight for picking on someone who already has enough challenges to deal with and doesn't need some moron picking on him/her. You did the right thing in my opinion.
2006-12-12 10:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that doesn't make you a bad person, it makes you a good decent person. No one deserves to be made fun of, especially someone who has no control over it. That was uncalled for on that person's fault. they are the bad person, not you. Be proud that you stood up for someone who couldn't fight back. That took balls and I'm proud of you too. I would of done the same exact thing!.
2006-12-12 10:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by Danelle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its probably ok.
Its ok to defend people you care about.
It is better to discus though to avoid misunderstanding.
Nope, not a bad person, just feeling bad inside. Not the same as being bad inside.
2006-12-12 10:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person who is the one making fun of someone else should feel guilty, not you. They do deserve to be told off, and much more actually.
2006-12-12 10:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lynnemarie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no b/c ppl like that should b told off i did the same thing to a few of my best friends. i also felt bad, but i explained it to them, i didn't really yell but i did tell them to shut up for laughing at him. i guess that is the way it is, but we ar still best friends and we stilltalk and everything. u did the right thing!!! :)
2006-12-12 10:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad for standing up for a person who could not stand up for themselves. I commend you... 8 cheers to you baby. Don't feel bad, you did the right thing.
2006-12-12 10:40:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kay_Ladee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I commend you...not everyone has the guts or intergrity to stand up for what is right. And it was right, in my eyes.
2006-12-12 10:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jennalove311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋