I have a terrible fear of being cheated on and my boyfriend was talking to an ex and its stirred up alot of fear and anxiety. I am creating scenerios in my head like you cant imagine. he is a wonderful boyfriend. im afraid to trust him entirely now, he changed his phone number and everything. but nothing is helping me. do u think that alot of this is pent up childhood emotions. my father left when i was 7 and he cheated on my mother.
help!!!!! im thinking of going to therapy?
2006-12-12 02:37:04 · 2 answers · asked by coco 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have the same issues.
I'm afraid my girlfriend was in love with my brother because they used to hang out all the time and every girl thinks he is super hott and attractive. I'm not ugly or anything but I don't think I'm as good as him, so all the time, I have to get my girlfriend to reassure me that she never liked him. Sometimes I find it VERY hard to believe but you know, what can I do?
My girlfriend had a dream that I cheated on her and had sex with one of her ex's. I played it cool, not bothering myself to create scenarios and what not. That only stirs up problems in the mind.
I just took her word for it, for she has never once lied to me.
Time-to-time I still have small jelaousy fits, but due to my girlfriends unconditional love for me, we're still together and doing great.
Just don't worry and have him reassure you, constantly if need be. If he loves you, this'll be no problem.
2006-12-12 10:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Markie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋