OK. I admit. For eight years he had my mind. But I am getting over that considering that he left me and the children for the village loose woman. But anyway, he received a notice from my insurance company that I had cut him out of my $750,000 life insurance policy and appointed a trustee for any part that goes to the kids. He also received a notice that he has to get his own health insurance now, which I paid for over the last three years of our marriage. He and his parents are calling and saying that I am acting too hastily. Excuse me, he has been gone for 9 months now. Is it me? Whenever I talk to him, I treat him like someone you see regularly on the train. Anything more than that is a bit much.
2006-12-12 02:05:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't see where these actions on your part constitute insanity.
Did that answer your question succinctly enough?
2006-12-12 02:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad that finally there is a woman that does not let anyone step on her. Three cheers for you, do not under any circumstances let you ex. or in-laws tell you what to do,with your decisions, what did your husband think that you would keep on paying his insurance, and that he would receive a pat on the back because he is the father of his kids? Do not let anyone dictate how you are going to run your life, Just remember that one of this days he will come running to you to take him back, but seeing that you are doing fine with your decisions, I do not think that will happen.
2006-12-12 10:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are being perfectly reasonable - what on earth does he and his family expect after what he did to you? It sounds like you are being very sensible, and also polite to him. Maybe he is starting to regret his decision, and maybe his parents were holding out hope of you getting back together? Keep being strong and doing what is best for you and your children. All the best x
2006-12-12 10:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by sarah l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your doing the right thing to take care of you and the kids. He's on his own. Isn't that why he moved out , to be on his own. Let his girlfriend put him on her insurance.
2006-12-12 10:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by CryBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him waiting for the train...ask him to stand in the center of the tracks to see if it is coming yet.
2006-12-12 10:09:33 · answer #5 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does he want? He wants to be with the village whooore but still wants you to provide for him? He needs to get a life! (and so do his parents!)
2006-12-12 10:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complete the cycle, change your phone number, file for divorce and custody. Let his girlfriend support his sorry ***.
2006-12-12 10:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've waited too long if anything, he has made his bed time for him to lie in it. get mammy and daddy to pay his insurance if they so worried.
2006-12-12 10:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by Caz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is the one who wants a free ride,go on with your life and ignor the bum
2006-12-12 10:08:48 · answer #9 · answered by looken4answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good you have a spine, so many people dont. submissive does not mean doormat.
hasty, no, smart, yes.
move on, you are setting a good example.
2006-12-12 10:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jillary von Hämsterviel™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋