When working with a partner on the job...?

Question

Is it better in the end if you just do it yourself??

Answer 1

I suppose it is. You can't keep blaming it on the tools after all. And you know the drill better than anyone else.

Answer 2

In large measure that depends on the "partnering" and mutual experiences shared in co working.

DIY might strictly state "Yourself" but think of this example.

I've been doing this likely for more years than you've been blessed to be here, and there have been times, when weight, size, etc. of a job, have insisted HELP be called upon.

Obviously it would be rather awkward for partners to be uncomfortably under a bathroom vanity sink, both attempting to remove a "P" trap, but as I lay there, twisting, cramped, back aching, it might be nice to have a "Partner" handing me tools I needed, and assuring that the job went smoothly.

No offense at all, but often two minds, and 4 hands are a practical solution, and I suggest this. Those who come here questioning, often need answers they don't have, in a DIY sense, so in effect I too have been a "partner" here, often. I will always choose my "partners" certainly, with knowledge, but never deny the aid of another should I need any.

Rev. Steven

Answer 3

It depends on the partner. My husband seems to know how to do just about anything, and he gives fairly good directions. My ex was just the opposite. As soon as he found out I knew the right end of a hammer, I became the handyman of the house. I wouldn't have done repair jobs with him on a dare.

Answer 4

Good question! I really dislike working with someone else. It becomes a tribulation in psychology as I have to work around their moods, their level on incompetency, and so on. I prefer to do everything by myself, and hire someone who is just a helper.
That works out much better in the end.
But remember, humans have basically two instincts when confronted with a crisis situation - fight or flight. There is a third technique called "join-up", where you partner with someone to smooth things over. For example, when your boss calls you into the office, you are in fight or flight mode. Now consider join-up.
That is a technique I always use when I have to work with someone the first time.

Answer 5

In some cases it is easier but then he/she would not learn anything from the experience. You need a little patience and you can actually find a way to improve things so that you and this other person work as a team. We were not placed on earth to be alone or GOD would not have made MAN and WOMAN. We are told to "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you." Read and study the New Testament as you have time during the holiday season. GOD will give you the strength to be a great leader of others if you study and ask to be able to do so. Have a great holiday. Learn and Teach as you are able at work and outside of work!
Eds

Answer 6

Depends if the job needs more than one pair of hands to complete!

Answer 7

Men tend to think that women are air heads when it comes to DIY and so ask advice but DIY!! On all soerts of jobs!!

Answer 8

whats nicer than doing jobs at home with your wife and having a laugh and stopping for tea and while doing the job both enjoying each others company enjoy each other its lonely when she's not there anymore

Answer 9

there are times we all have had helpers doing projects.Seems we both had good idea's in the beginning,but some how we both got up-set and one had to walk away from the project.So if its your project ?Just do it and learn from your mistakes.

Answer 10

DIY usually!